what if...........?

Question

Ulike ur best guy friend but u cant tell them, but he like shows jealousy when u talk bout another guy, does that mean he likes u? He remebers things i told him months ago & suddenly brings them up. He's jealous because i consider him 1 of my best friends and i barely got to really know him this year, & i tell my other guy best friend everything before i tell him. & if i tell him my crushes hell be like well Y do u like him? When i would hug my one of my guy friends he had a look like he really didnt like it. But he also told me he had a crush but by the end of the school year he said that she wasnt worth it..so im really confused and i need help because hes coming back from work for school this year again, do i tell him i like him? I mean even my dad thinks he likes me. theirs days wher i dont even think about him and i dream that he comes back and we are together. But he said that when he liked a girl HE tells her...do u think he would still like me??.

Answer 1

Talk to him.... realize that our society has a very confused view of how relationships work and your dealing with that delima right now! See friends do become lovers! Its natural, its the right way, its the way its met to be. Shoot even the chinese got a proverb for it "Friends can become great lovers, but lovers rarly become decent friends" So realize that yes chances are, and also that the only thing thats really going to make or breck the relationship isn't the attraction, but the purpose. In other words, you'd better be getting together more then just love, but also because of the FRIENDSHIP!!!! IT save friendships it doesn't destroy them.... not growing together destroies them.....