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as stated... we have been dating for approaching a year.
her parents are very conservative and given the current situation (her divorce not being final-final) she thinks it is best if i dont meet them until it is...
given what i have heard etc... i agree....
problem is....
We are IN LOVE and have been fully and completely for the whole time... we talk about marriage, a family, we live in the same home (another thing kept from her parents obviously)
It is just getting harder the longer it takes....
Given we want to marry, and given i will ask her fathers blessing before proposing that is obviously putting a BIG hold on things...., as when i meet them in a month or two they will assume we just started dating etc...
she plans on telling them we have been hanging out, doing things etc for over a year before i meet them when she tells them of me...
can you think of any creative ideas to make this process easier or tell them.
BEFORE YOU SAY IT...

2007-07-25 04:29:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

she has been seperated for 2.5 YEARS. i had been out of my last relationship of 6 years for about 1.5. we both were the ones to end our last relationships...
WE THEREFORE ARENT RUSHING THINGS... as we arent planning on getting married the week after i meet them,
When everthing screams you have met the right person... YOU HAVE TO LISTEN....
this is one of the only things holding us back
thanks

2007-07-25 04:32:03 · update #1

1 answers

Just so you know that thing that screams that isn't because of some god like and zenful thing. Its because you guys basically, and somewhat magically really! See eye-2-eye! That what makes it true love in a sense, but as I'm seeing her doesn't make you guys right with all your descions, in perturcular this one. See HONESTY is the NUMBER ONE way to go, no lies, no descet, no they won't understand bs. If its really, really, really true buddy, then you could tell anyone, honestly all about it, I don't care if its the pope and your both married to someone else, love make us stand up for what we believe in. And you guys playing this game with the parents seems like a bad start to a great relationship, be honest, or don't be at all, and this well be a great relationship! Besides it being a pricipal, the big thing is that when your honest from your heart about something, its unstoppable, its undebateable, its finale. So let them know it, and drop the game every day you guys wait playing this game is just more lies and descet you'll have to get behind later. Do this one right cat, explain to here how important it is, and do the same with your parents if you havn't... geeze conservative, doesn't mean unable to understand reality... go now!

2007-07-25 10:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

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