Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

2007-07-25 08:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by Kimmy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why did he get upset?
this guy iam coworkers with and acquitances/friends with got upset when i said not all babies are cute in my opinion, i also said i wanted to adopt and not a have a baby of my own, he got upset when i told him that as well and he said why i woudlnt want to have a kid and i told him its b/c the process of having a kid is nasty and he said it's nature, but why did he get soo upset?

i just turned 20 and he's going to be 25 soon, he said all babies are cute -but just b/c i think different he got mad, what gives?

2007-07-25 08:28:19 · 1 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

i said to my fiance when we get msrried the following people sre banned from my life:
1) my three aunts (dad's sisters)
2)a selected amount of cousins(dad's side)
and also we are to never go to their house for any reason-not even in an emergency. i want my last moment seing them is my wedding day and then i avoid them. is it wrong to wish that I and my kids do not have to see them at all ????!!
Thanks.

2007-07-25 08:27:45 · 15 answers · asked by ezekiel's mom 4 in Family

I know that wedding cakes are made in advance, usually a few days to a week, of the wedding day. I'm wondering if there is something unique about a wedding cake recipe that differs from a typical cake recipe so that the cake stays moist for so long. We're looking for a great chocolate wedding cake recipe if anyone as any! THANKS!

2007-07-25 08:26:23 · 6 answers · asked by Doo 2 in Weddings

Having so far a friendly seperation/divorce. If both parties agree on child custody, division of debt, etc... is it needed to involve the court system for divorce?

2007-07-25 08:25:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sis says that I've changed ever since i've gotten with my boyfriend, that I'm more "meaner, rude," and says i'm always wanting to fight. I've looked into what was going on and I don't think i've changed. My friends said I haven't, nor do other family members. I've tried talking to my sister, but talking turns into arguments all the time, and therefore she tells me I'm "impossible to talk to." People close to me tell me she's treating me horrible and that she's always instigating fights with me. What should I do?

2007-07-25 08:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by Mystery Bunny ♥ 2 in Family

There has been on going regular maritial problem wife waants husband to move out and has been trying provoke husband to respond violently once or twice she has been violent called police then blamed husband once he broke the car window how ever she is the one that has done the damages to the family 2 young children are in the house hold they have been married close to 10 years

2007-07-25 08:23:08 · 2 answers · asked by MmM.a.yahoo.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a bf who i left for united states so i could have a vacation for 2 months. all he ever texted me was bad news ranging from- near sore eyes, being stabbed, hospitalized, having near-to-death experiences and being food poisoned. his text messages tells me that he is kinda bed ridden and seemingly dying. he have always said his final words such as HE might never see me again and asked if i would cry if he died. i said he shouldn't talk about those and get cured instead. ppl HERE are getting suspicious cos he won't answer my calls there (thrice) and when asked about the hospital he checked in, he said it only on the 3rd day & despite his ailment he managed to say that HE can go home already so no 1 can check if he is really checked in there. there is no confirmation if he is really sick or making all this cos we know here that he wants me to go home and doesn't want me to be having a vacation here. he said he missed me a lot but we think most of his msgs are unbelievable.. ?! help

2007-07-25 08:21:55 · 9 answers · asked by ♬müsic-to-yoür-ears♬ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am moving out of California to Iowa. I was married in California and have been for 13 years. I have a child and the father agrees I can take her with me. Can I file for legal seperation in Iowa?

2007-07-25 08:20:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not large and don't intend to ever get that way, but I hear all of the time that women get married and then blow up - how many men have experienced this? Did it effect your love? Cause trouble in your marriage?

2007-07-25 08:16:22 · 15 answers · asked by Random_Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm finally 18 and I decided I'm done with stupid high school boys and want to start dating older guys. I know I don't want to have sex until I'm married. Will this be a problem. If so where so I meet guys I have things in common with? I start college in august, should I wait until then?

2007-07-25 08:16:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

newly married and my husband misses his children sooooo (girl-18, boy-16) much that he will do anything to see them. the son doesnt come around at all. the daughter is sweet and calls when she needs money or something. the daughter never sent me a thank you card for her graduation gift. I told her father to quit talking badly about their mom (she had an affair with his best friend). I had his daughter go to counseling with us so she could get some help. I've tried to be supportive and after we got married, she went from bad to worse. I told her dad that he needs to lay down the law and tell her that she must show respect. that's all. i have a child, and i make sure she/he knows that she/he has to show respect. i make sure he always says "thank you" and speaks to my husband in the morning, when he comes home, and tells him goodnight. my child likes his new "dad". they do butt heads occasssionally, but i respect my husbands feelings and requests.

He says he can't "make" his daughter

2007-07-25 08:13:15 · 12 answers · asked by (!)listen 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 08:12:14 · 32 answers · asked by Jules 4 in Singles & Dating

He is traveling with a group of guys and I want to send ...I don't know maybe something for each day or....anyway, I thuoght I'd see what you folk can come up with. The funnier the better.

No "adult" suggestions please. I've already got that part covered.

2007-07-25 08:07:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

soooooooooooo. I like this boy but when i like someone and i no they like me i get excited and start calling them loads of times. it sux and i can't help it but i need lots of help. i don't no wat 2 do now and that isn't good. please help me. i want a boyfriend but i can't even give a guy space HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-25 08:07:28 · 1 answers · asked by Teahl Rice 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I left my husband of 4 years 3 weeks ago. We have an 8 week old and a 3 year old. We get along sometimes, but come from 2 different backgrounds ( I am very affectionate, he is not at all)
We have had our problems, but always been faithful. He has always had an attitude problem, not very friendly, etc. It always drives me crazy. He always hounds me to get a job and calls me lazy, fat and worthless( i am none). The has mainly occured since we had a suprise pregnancy last August. He didnt want another baby then. He was ugly to me the whole time I was pregnant, no repsect, etc. When our daughter came, he acted totally withdrawn and very ugly. ( Just ignored her). He has held her twice in 8 weeks- and only because we "forced" him to. He has said hurtful things regarding our child ( like " I dont have to hold her if I dont want to). He is in complete denial . I want to work things out.( for our kids and I do still love him) We just both seem so stressed. Any comments?

2007-07-25 08:07:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After sending the invitation, I found out our friend is dating a person that I DO NOT want at my wedding. She is an ex-girlfriend to my fiance'.

How do I explain to him without hurting his feelings.

2007-07-25 08:04:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

verbally abusive and it seems like we fight more than we get along. I want to date other people but I dont want him completely out of my life but he refuses to be friends. I cant seem to let him go even though Im sure its best for me. What do I do?

2007-07-25 08:04:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 08:04:19 · 11 answers · asked by ChynaD 1 in Weddings

I met Melissa 3 years ago. We had an instant connection. We used to sit and talk for hours, we did everything together. We had issues like everyone else, we were divorced, 2 kids each, ex-spouses, money,etc. As time went by, I got frustrated with the problems and started talking to another Woman online, and I met her for dinner. After me & Melissa got back together, the other woman and I started talking again (months later). Melissa and I broke up a year later for about 2 weeks and I went out with the other lady again for spite. (Nothing ever happened between us) Melissa is a wonderful person and I kept pushing her away until she left. I have tried to get her back. I do love her so much. I realize now how much I have hurt her because, now its my turn to hurt. This isn't so much a question as it is a thought, "Why are we so stupid and hurt the ones we love?" If you find someone you love, do whatever you can to show them, don't be stupid and hurtful to them. Just love them!

2007-07-25 08:02:35 · 14 answers · asked by The Wižard 5 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my best friend will be startin highschool soon and i'm moving far out i will still be going to the same school but the house is further out my mom was considering letting him move in with us during the school year like coming to our house on sunday night then going back to his house on friday night he hasnt asked his parents yet what do you think me and him should do please help ????? oh yeah it just me and my mom and we live in a 3 bed 2 1/2 bath so theres plenty of room

2007-07-25 08:00:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Or just still the same?
I'm 19 and sadly, I care a lot about girls looks, but that doesn't mean that I treat ugly(not good looking)people with no respect or anything like that.

2007-07-25 07:58:54 · 10 answers · asked by hazxx 1 in Singles & Dating

Come on! Be honest! You girls answer to! ;) Its not an excluive thing for guys!

2007-07-25 07:57:14 · 27 answers · asked by ☆MiraLaStela☆ 4 in Singles & Dating

d me that if her date cancels, could I go? I asked her what time the reception was because I have to get up very early on Sun. am to help my boyfriend @work. She told me it started @ 6 so I told her I would go only if we could stay for 2 hrs. She said that was fine. Then she called me like a week after that & tells me everything is starting @ 3 so she will pick me up @ 2. I reminded her that I have a prior engagement on the other side of town,& I can't rush through it.Then she says the reception is still @ 6, I reminded her that she invited me to the reception not the wedding.Now she tells me that her car brokedown & she wants me to catch the bus to her house & catch a ride w/ her family. I told her I was sorry I couldn't go w/ her to the reception & now she is mad. She wanted me to cancel my whole day & night for a wedding of some1 I don't even know. My noon apointment is very important & I can't cancel it she doesn't understand that. Or my devotion to helping my boy friend @ work.

2007-07-25 07:55:55 · 9 answers · asked by Miss 6 7 in Friends

Shapely hips ? Big breasts ? Big eyes ? Long Legs ?
Help me out !

2007-07-25 07:54:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know how to explain it but i just feel like he isnt as commited and doesnt enjoy my company, but everytime i mention breaking up he refuses to, i really love him but i need him to be there and have time for us?

2007-07-25 07:50:33 · 14 answers · asked by Ari jay 2 in Singles & Dating

was just curious how many people really meet people on-line be it chat rooms or on-line dating services, that they really "click" with and stay with for a long period of time or even marry....

2007-07-25 07:47:41 · 1 answers · asked by amber 5 in Singles & Dating

I hate being single . I’ve had people tell me “Being single isn't the problem, it’s what you make of it .” and “If you think of the single life being crummy, then of course it's gonna be .” . I figured if I don’t like being single, it’s because I don’t like bars, and all of the women I meet are going steady with jerks . One fellow used to keep asking me “Why do you want to get married ?” . To me, the single life seems like a big fat zero ! If you don’t like bars, and you can’t find an available women, what else is left ? What good is being single without a girlfriend ? How can a single person have a fabulous life ?

2007-07-25 07:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

What is the most important feature you look for in a girl?

Eyes, face, chest, etc.

2007-07-25 07:44:21 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

His ex and him were together for 3 years and 2 weeks before our wedding back in feb she showed up at his grandmas with their little boy which my husband isnt sure is his because she refuses to get a DNA test done how can we find out the boy is his when she refuses plus she is a unfit mother and a psycho that day she showed up and she tried every desperate attempt to get him back she cried and she used that poor baby hoping that the little boy could win him back and then when we were leaving she came to his side of the truck and begin to tell him she loved him and then handed him a wad of papers.well we left and when we got home i looked at the papers and all it was is her writing down all her precious little memories and saying i wasnt what he needed and all kind of stuff.Then a month ago she showed up at his work claiming to be his wife.I want to know two things
1How do we find out if the boys his when she refuses to do a DNA test and 2How do i i get her to quit stalking my husband?

2007-07-25 07:43:12 · 13 answers · asked by txangel211986 1 in Marriage & Divorce