i have a bf who i left for united states so i could have a vacation for 2 months. all he ever texted me was bad news ranging from- near sore eyes, being stabbed, hospitalized, having near-to-death experiences and being food poisoned. his text messages tells me that he is kinda bed ridden and seemingly dying. he have always said his final words such as HE might never see me again and asked if i would cry if he died. i said he shouldn't talk about those and get cured instead. ppl HERE are getting suspicious cos he won't answer my calls there (thrice) and when asked about the hospital he checked in, he said it only on the 3rd day & despite his ailment he managed to say that HE can go home already so no 1 can check if he is really checked in there. there is no confirmation if he is really sick or making all this cos we know here that he wants me to go home and doesn't want me to be having a vacation here. he said he missed me a lot but we think most of his msgs are unbelievable.. ?! help
2007-07-25 08:21:55 · 9 answers · asked by ♬müsic-to-yoür-ears♬ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um. it sounds like he's found a very unhealthy way of manipulating you to come home or (maybe) breaking up with you. I would start running as far and as fast as I could away from this guy. He's crazy.
2007-07-25 08:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your options are :
1. an undercover secret agent
2. a habitual liar
3. a 13 year old, playing a prank on you
4. a married man, texting when his wife and kids are asleep
5. innocent man, in prison for a crime he did not commit
6. someone in the hospital with hallucinations
7. the most un-lucky person on this planet
8. someone playing the longest running prank
please make your selection at this time......
Save your self respect. Save your dignity. Delete his id from your phone and stop contacting and replying to any contact from him. Chalk this up to experience. Next time, do not be so gullible.
good luck to you `
2007-07-25 15:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't answered your calls, yet he can text you? That is strange. His comments about him dying are not funny in the least!
Tell him flat out you don't believe him and ask him what is really going on. Might be time for a new boyfriend.
2007-07-25 15:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's having a lot of bad luck or he's just crazy and coming up with stories.
2007-07-25 15:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the heck.
He has some bad luck. Or is a horrible liar.
If he has bad luck it might wear off on you.
If he's a horrible liar, dump him.
2007-07-25 15:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by ran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of this made no sense at all but from what I could gather... he's running a guilt trip. Not nice. I say dump him.
2007-07-25 15:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not in a hospital sick, then he ought to be in a psych ward somewhere. This is very weird.
2007-07-25 15:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to start a new life in a new country. Proclaimng to be dead.
2007-07-25 15:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by `L ネルソン 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to break the news to you, but he is lying to you. More accurately, he has always been lying to you.From the moment you met him, he has done nothing but lie.
2007-07-25 15:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋