Or just still the same?
I'm 19 and sadly, I care a lot about girls looks, but that doesn't mean that I treat ugly(not good looking)people with no respect or anything like that.
2007-07-25 07:58:54 · 10 answers · asked by hazxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I shall be frank with you...some ladies do because they just fall into depression or something and stay there.
Others, like myself..wish to look as we did when we first married..I was a size 12/14 and very curvy and hubby was all over me.
However, having children for the men that we love takes a toll upon our bodies and caring for them day in and day out stresses our minds...so that other things become more important than ourselves.
I never wanted to gain weight, but it happened, almost 50 pounds when I got pregnant the first time. Then I had 2 car accidents, and now, sometimes just to walk knocks my spine out of alignment and I end up hospitalized. Not fun.
We do some things out of love, not because we do not care, but because we care MORE for others than ourselves.
I lost those 50 pounds after 9 years of hard work, and eating the right things. But to be honest, my hubby did not care...he just wanted me. Plain, 50 pounds heavier, me.
BTW- we are now expecting our 2nd child and to answer your other ?
We still to this day, my being heavy or not, have sex 10-50 times a month...
So, looks should NOT be an issue.
2007-07-25 08:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would seem that way. As i get older i find myself looking less(or not as all)for boobs, *** and things like that but i notice a girls eyes or mouth. I think after a while i wont care at all about looks because its slowly fading. The other day there was this lady in the store, i'm not going to lie she wasn't attractive at all like not one bit. We walked around shopping because i asked for her help to find some **** i forget what it was. As i was leaving the store i felt sad because i liked her so much even tho she wasn't attractive, i would have stayed all day in the store with her just because of her personality.
2007-07-25 15:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually you're right on there and good question. From my own personal experience it's not so much about the looks as much as it is who she is as a person and how she relates to you and others. You get to see and know and experience that more and more the older you get. Shoot guys are sexually programed to like good looks. Girls and guys both alike tho like sexy butts nothing beats a hot azz.
2007-07-25 15:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Care I'm 50+ I look maybe 40 so it make a big difference to me. Guy & Girls,They seem to let themself go everywhere. Eating Smoking, drinking & drugs take there toll on looks & body firmness.Hope they don't get upset with me it 's there choice how they want to look.Maybe that's why i'm alone??
2007-07-25 15:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older you get, the more you realize looks don't make a person and the more you will see a person for who they are and not what they look like.
2007-07-25 15:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by sortaclarksville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking as we get older looks count a little less than when we are younger.
2007-07-25 15:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think standards lower with age. I work with some guys around 40 that drool over trashy, disgusting girls.
2007-07-25 15:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes looks is not the factor to love or happiness someone could be beautiful but a player or cheater and one could be ok looking and be loving and honest. looks don't matter its wats on the inside
2007-07-25 15:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lulu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true.
2007-07-25 15:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
post this question when you are 20! maybe you'll have gotten your answer then.
2007-07-25 15:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by pretty1 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋