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why did he get upset?
this guy iam coworkers with and acquitances/friends with got upset when i said not all babies are cute in my opinion, i also said i wanted to adopt and not a have a baby of my own, he got upset when i told him that as well and he said why i woudlnt want to have a kid and i told him its b/c the process of having a kid is nasty and he said it's nature, but why did he get soo upset?

i just turned 20 and he's going to be 25 soon, he said all babies are cute -but just b/c i think different he got mad, what gives?

he got disappointed more than anything , he didnt get mad, but he tried to open my eyes about having babies..

Answer 1

This comes down to a miscommunication, a CLASSIC miscommunication, lol, they've actually made movies that make fun of this but ether way. He got the feeling that maybe you'll never want to have his kiddo which is a BIG, BIG, B I G Deal to a male, really it is. So even thou you guys really shouldn't even be considering such things yet he feels you've already cut it out of the relationship. Sad considering to since you actually have the more mature perception on kiddos, but he has the more mature perception on having kiddos. I think so deep heart-2-heart could fix this just fine. Explain to him that it has no baring on weather, if, or when you and him might talk about having kids, its just the way you've felt about it most of you life, maybe throw in some light hearted flirting about how he might be the man to change your mind, weather he is or not, its the HOPE thats so important.... good luck!