He only mentioned to me that he would sell the car to settlle th debt. Instead he paid and did not sell the car but gave it back to her. Shes a manipulative woman. he decided to give her the car after she gave him a tie and a card signed by her 2 sons as a birthday present. he has gone into our savings to pay her debt. i dont opppose him helping his family but he should have the decency to tell me the truth. he thinks Im not aware do I ask him?
2007-07-25 05:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by cassis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you again, it's me again.... :)
he should tell you the truth.
i'm not sure that i would tell him u know. u may want to find out what else he's lying to u about and if he finds out u know, then he'll just cover his tracks better. i wouldn't want to close that door.
2007-07-25 06:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by (!)listen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that what a "real" marriage is all about? Honesty and openess? Yeah, tell him, confront him and demand answers, YOUR HIS WIFE, right. Well, stop being afraid, because you are otherwise you would have already discussed this with him and not put it on here.
One other thing....why do people marry other people that there so afraid of they can't talk to them?
2007-07-25 13:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say soething to him . I would let him know if he wonts to pay for his exwife then he should be with her. Cut your loses and get out . If you let this pass it will never stop. I know i let things like this go on for 5 years.I got out i was staying broke and she was living the life that should have been mine. Im better now with out him. And i have money to take care of me. After i ws done with him he could not keep her up anymore.lol
2007-07-25 13:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by pechuneycutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put any of the $$ into the savings then I'd mention it for sure.
2007-07-25 12:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up, and be honest with you. If not, I cannot see why he bothered to get married again to you.
2007-07-25 12:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Herbert S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole situation stinks. Don't ask, leave.
2007-07-25 12:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by doovinator 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋