Yeah, I know, the title's really melodramatic.
Anyway, I just came back from this week-long class sponsored by a group called Klemmer. The class is called Teen Leadership. One of the rules we agreed to was no bf/gf stuff.
The problem is, they get you so close and emotionally involved in these people, it's almost impossible to not feel something. And there's my problem.
It's hugely unlikely we'll ever see each other again, It wasn't even much of a relationship... it lasted 7 days, although those were the longest 7 days of my life. But...
If nothing was happening, I could get over this. Time, right? But my parents have informed me that we're going on a week-long camping trip/family reunion tomorrow. We leave at 5 AM. So, I need a way to get over this quickly, even though I don't really want to. I already tried not going on the trip, they said too bad. It kills me that they don't realize what I feel is real. They act like since I'm 16, it's not serious.
2007-07-25 05:29:53 · 6 answers · asked by notmakani 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It feels serious to you, but sweetie after just 7 days of knowing someone (and no bf/gf stuff) it cannot be all that serious, you barely knew her. It was an infatuation...
Time will get you over it, but you also have to want to let it go...had you really gotten to know her, you may have found you weren't a good match after all. But even if that's not true, the fact is that you're home now and life must go on. Why waste time being blue over a situation you cannot change?
Focus on what lies ahead for you...and how much fun you can have on this trip (plus, it'll be a good distraction from your blues)
Take care of you!
2007-07-25 05:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said it you don't want to get over, then don't sometimes the best thing to do when there is a problem in your life is to face it head on embrace it and grow from it. That is what strong, positive, successful, people do. Take it as a challenge, I personally love challenges all kinds. You will be okay just go through the motions, and don't let it consume all of your time know when to come up for air. Take it easy champ, much love and good luck.
2007-07-25 12:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWWWW hun first let me say I am 24 I fell in love when i was 15 we are together now and have two kids 8 and 4!
NOBODY can tell u what u feel inside. If u have her info send her letters let her know how much you feel for her dont hold back you only live once and you dont want to always wonder what if right? As for missing her, dont be so sad u never know what life has in store for you it truly is a small world trust me!
2007-07-25 12:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by LILLIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents know the feelings are real.
Part of parenting is teaching you to be a memeber of a family. Right now your station (in the family)is as a teenager who should join the family on vacation.
Addtionally, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Learn to be "Aloof" and it will drive this guy more crazy.
2007-07-25 12:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't contact her maybe you should just realize that. If God doesn't want her there in your life then that's that. Now...to get over it, find things you like to do. But let yourself have one sappy cryish day. And then move on. Best way to do it...if you don't...it will run your life for as long as you let it.
When another girl comes into your life...you'll realize what it feels like and then know..."how could I have been so silly about that girl ______ (insert name here)"
Hope things get better!
2007-07-25 12:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Just living.... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure if theirs a fast remedy but remind yourself of all the things you didn't like about this person and pretend this person has a bf/gf
2007-07-25 12:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by greenapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋