i love one of my classmates she's a girl?! but not what you think. i mean what should i do to say her that i love her but not as a lover like boys and girls. yoi know i have my own boy friend?!
what do you think i can do to tell her that i love her?
2007-07-25 07:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when you love someone that guy usually will understand it itself so even if she didn't realized just close your eyes and tell her?!
2007-07-27 08:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you're trying to say - that this girl is very special to you - not as a physical lover - but more as a deep and hopefully enduring friend - You're lucky. You can usually count on the fingers of one hand the number of people you can feel this close to.
You can tell her things like
I truly value our friendship.
I have never had as close a friend as you before and I really appreciate it.
I'd heard of close friendships but always thought of them as, well, imaginary. But yeah. I am so glad you're my friend.
2007-07-25 14:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, "you are the best-est friend in the world and I love you for that" and give her a big hug. She will understand I have told all my girlfriends I love them it's like telling you mom or brother if you say it in that way she will know where you are coming from. Much love and good luck.
2007-07-25 14:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not into for a relationship with her, then why do you feel the need to tell her that anyway?
And if she were a close friend of yours you wouldn't have any problem saying it.
So if you're going to ask a question on here, atleast be honest ;)
2007-07-25 14:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you friends with her? Do you go places together? If so, give her a hug sometime and tell her, "I love you like a sister." I think we all have friends that we have a special love for and they should be told how much they mean to us.
2007-07-25 14:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her the you love her, but tell her how valuable your friendship is to her, and how much you appreciate her being your friend, and that you hope you'll stay friends forever and you'll try to help her out whenever you can, stuff like that.
Or even just say "I love you. As a friend."
2007-07-25 14:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you're glad she's your friend, that she helps you out when you need it, that you are glad you're so close, that you love her. I tell my best friend all the time that I love her, because I do! I don't know what I'd do without her.
2007-07-25 14:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by coopermom2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. You have your own boy friend now. It is wrong to cheat on your boy friend.
2007-07-25 14:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by jquick13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't tell her!! show your love to her. let her see it herself it is the easiest and safest wayy... I guess
2007-07-25 14:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by hedar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it!!! if it is love then it will work it's self up.
2007-07-25 14:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by j.r. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋