There is this girl that I used to have a crush on, I never got a chance to tell her how I really felt about her. She had a bf for about an year on and off. I just found out that they have broken up for good. I still do like her, I would like to tell her how i really felt about her. In the past we have done stuff intimately b4 she had a bf. What kind i do, we have talked on and off when she was with her bf. How can i tell her how i feel about her to be able to win her heart. I truly do like her, i thought it was just a fling, but i do think about her at times. I would like her to know how i feel that i want her to be my gf when its right. what is the best way to go about this ladies. thanks again.
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2007-07-25 07:05:11 · 5 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her what u told us..tell her how special, beautiful, and wonderful of a woman you think she is and have always thought that way. Speak from your heart, it may sound cheesy but it means a lot to her. And she'll know you'll want a relationship by saying all these things..instead of saying "i wanna be in a relationship!" just tell her u want to spend more time with her because you love being around her. If she goes out on dates with u and hangs out with you the relationship will progress naturally and no one will feel rushed. Think about Why you like her so much and cant get her out of your head. These reasons are what u need to say to her.
Best of luck:)
P.S. Remeber, you didnt just meet her and u were intimate at one time, so telling her this stuff is something she needs to hear and you will always wonder, "what if?" It sounds like you guys are friends so it will always be that way unless someone speaks up.
2007-07-25 07:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think the first step is to hang out with her a couple of times to see where her head is at. Usually you can tell if someone is interested by the dress (dress to impress), if she is touchy, and she is constantly smiling. These are just a few things to look for .Chances are if she is interested in you she will call you to do more activities with you and spend more time with you, in which case you can tell her how you feel in person maybe at the end of a date. Be honest and dont be over bearing. Tell her how you felt from the beginning. Now if she says she not interested.... pack it up and leave her alone
However,if you guys go out a few times and you notice she is standoffish and distant then you should probably keep your feelings to yourself and wait to see how things go for a while.
2007-07-25 07:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this carefully. If you want to get back with her, call her and ask her to go to the movies or out to eat or a ballgame. Some event. Do not tell her you had a crush on her for all those years because you will scare her. Get to know her again and give her a chance to get to know you. Maybe things will work out this time. Good luck.
2007-07-25 07:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man and get it out in the open
do something spontaneous but not making a full of yourself at the same time
you know her already so just cut to the chase and allow the small talk
good luck
looks like you need it
2007-07-25 07:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with her like fun then dates then ask her its not rocket science lol :)
2007-07-25 07:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋