I have seen this guy out and about throughout the years,he has always tried talking to me but I always blew him off(i was still hooked on my x)I saw him out a couple weeks ago and he looked adorable(im now over my x)at first he seemed into me,but i ended up drinking a little too much,i found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he did not reply,so the next morning i sent another message saying'you are suppose to accepy my apology'he replied with'im pacing myself'and a smily face.so a few more days went by and I sent him another message telling him to add me on his friends list,and he did.a little over a week passed and i sent him another message about how i know a friend of his and i dont like him(his friend)he had no response to that.I feel like an idiot now,what was'pacing himself'meaning?Is he into me at all or not interested?
2007-07-25 07:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't worry to much about it. Just try to meet him in person again and have a good talk. When someone says they are pacing themselves it usually means they are taking things slow or don't want to rush things.
The only comment or piece of advice I have for you is try not to dis the friends of guy you like it's always a bad idea.
2007-07-25 08:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is taking it slow. You should give him some breathing room. Leave him alone for awhile and let him come to you if he is interested. If he doesn't email you then don't sweat it. He may be getting over someone himself. You never know. Always try to be friends first. Just wait a few weeks and see if he contacts you. If he doesn't, then find someone else interesting to talk to. Sometimes if you leave them alone for awhile, they may come around and wonder where you been. Let him chase you for a change. Good luck!
2007-07-25 14:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by heavymetal_luv69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds awfully confused himself. You left him out in the cold for years, then suddenly you're into him, and he doesn't know what to do. I suggest that you ask him out on a casual date. Something that's barely even a date. Just coffee or something. Talk honestly with him, maybe flirt a bit. By the end of that date, you'll know what's up, hopefully.
2007-07-25 14:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is interested and truly wants to "pace" himself, you may be pushing him away by messaging him so much. I know very few guys who don't have the balls to ask a girl out if they're interested. Give him some time to come to you. In the mean time, you're not tied down. . . go out, have fun!
2007-07-25 14:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by meg m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem a little aggresive and he seems pretty passive. maybe you should back off with the emails on myspace and see if he does anything. at this point it sounds like you trying to tell him to like you and maybe he doesnt.
2007-07-25 14:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you should have "paced" yourself drinking and not drank so much. He may not look at you the same now.
2007-07-25 15:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he is immature and playing games.
Find someone who will talk to u not someone who doesnt care if he ever sees u, there is someone out there that will call you back and want to see you--if it hasnt happened in all these years than it want happen at all.
2007-07-25 14:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you showed him another side and he's not interested anymore.
2007-07-25 14:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not interested because he has other chicks.
2007-07-25 14:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your pushy
2007-07-25 14:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋