my husband loves me,or so he says but he stares at other women?

Answer 1

you are his Mercedes Benz..... but he likes looking at Ferraris and Porches too.... so what... leave him alone... my god...

Answer 2

I don't care for the taglines like, "Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu..."

That's a selfish way of thinking (if a man thinks like that before getting married, he doesn't belong being in a relationship).

I would be hurt if my husband/boyfriend had wandering eyes. When you're married, a couple's attention should only revolve around each other, no third parties. Talk to your husband. And if he doesn't understand, give him a taste of his own medicine and show him how it feels.

Answer 3

All men look at pretty women. It's usually no big deal, unless he is breaking his neck to turn around a stare. I know as a woman, sometimes it stinks, but it's just normal. Don't worry about it!

Answer 4

So it's not like he's in a relationship with other women. Give him a break and leave him alone. A marriage has to have faith. Don't break that faith over his looking at other women. I don't think you're gonna go through life looking at him all day. Stop being so suspicious of him and trust him. Why'd you marry him if you don't believe him!

Answer 5

Stare with him, then we one walks by, go, "That is one SWEET A$S! Right, honey? Should I go ask her if she'll do a 3-way with us?"

If he goes 'what do you mean' just say well hell you were staring like a wolf at a steak so I thought I better get a look, too.

Then kick him in the nuts a few times.


Later, when he asks for a beer, say, "Why don't you have that little tramp you were staring at in the mall get you a beer, asshole?" Storm out.

Oh, and when he looks, whisper in his ear, "Mmmmm. She's cute. And you won't be getting any poontang for a week. Enjoy your drooling stare, peckerwood."

My point? We all look, but if he is with you he should have enough goddamned COMMON COURTESY to not look for a while. He's a friggin teenager with no self control.

Answer 6

yes, and so what. ITs natural for men and women to stare at other people. My husband does it and tells me he compares every woman to me. They dont even come close. I stare at guys...if I see a nice looking guy with built arms or his shirt off...its natural.

Answer 7

he is a man. Men are drawn to pretty women I am married and I know my husband has to look at other girls sometimes. he wont do it around me because he respects me but its nothing to get bent out of shape about as long as you know for sure he would NEVER cheat! Even you have to do a double take if a really attractive guy walks by

Answer 8

Do you ever check out hot guys? If not, maybe you should start. It's ok to look at other attractive people!!

Tell your husband to be a little more discreet, but otherwise, relax. It's normal for men AND women to find other attractive people interesting. It's human nature.

Answer 9

Does he stare or drool an what is his response when you question him.I stare at a lot of people as it take me a while to grasp the whole picture.A poor excuse is better than none.

Answer 10

Oh get over yourself...ALL men look at other women. Most Women do the same...just won't admit it. Him looking at women says that he's a healthy male. Him "staring" is a little creepy. Tell him its ok to look, but its creepy and scarey to stare.

Answer 11

To look at other beautiful women and admire is different than lusting after other women. For him to stare at other women especially when he is with you displays disrespect for your feelings. If us women were all honest we all would agree that we do get offended if our guy gawks at other women. Looking is one thing, gawking is another. I am assuming you see your guy gawking at other women, so my advice is going with this. Tell him to gain more self control and to show some respect for your feelings, or try gawking at other hunks, see how he likes it.