2007-07-25 10:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Never good enough for friends? Family? Significant other? What's the situation? :/
2007-07-25 10:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you are never good enough is your perception of the situation. It isn't necessarily the way things are. We all have anxious moments when we think we've said or done the wrong thing, even when we are trying our hardest. The fact is, we are noticing our foibles much more than anyone else. They are too busy noticing their own! You don't cite the context or an example. Whatever, the situation, just do your best. If you do, you will never have a reason to be ashamed of your actions. It will gradually get better (although some of us feel somewhat inadequate all our lives...that's what support groups are for.) Just think of all the things you will know NOT to do!
2007-07-25 17:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use 2 feel like that too.I felt like nothin i ever did was good enough for my parents...or anybody!!But..as i got a little older..i stopped caring what other people thought of me..as long as i'm happy with myself that's all that matters.U dont need to worry about whether ur good enough 4 everybody else.Are u happy with the way things are??If so..dont worry about everybody else!!!
2007-07-25 17:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Norma L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you allow people to make you believe that your not good enough. Remember one thing,.. Even though opinions at times are important they should not always hold more importance to your own opinion of yourself. Live life being respectful to yourself and to others and it will be all good. Cause once you believe in yourself and have self respect you will no longer allow others opinions to have such an impact on your own. And then you can tell those that are judging and selfish to kiss your a- -!!! ;))
Good luck!
2007-07-25 17:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's parents, tell them this. Sometimes people have mental issues that they don't know about, even if it's just that whatever you isn't good enough. It could also be because they have a higher expectation of you because they want you to turn out as a better person.
2007-07-25 17:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Aron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do u mean, are u not pleasing someone in ur life?
i'm not sure what's up, or how old u r, but i know that in the teens phase u tend to do or act clumsy. if ure not pleasing someone in ur life, u need to be happy with urself, figure out what is it that u want and go for it. there will always be ppl saying u cant, but u have to prove them wrong, and bust ur @$$ to show them that u can. i know what it feels like to have so many ppl look down on u, and now i'm an honor student, going to the top. u can make it to the top 2. if u set ur mind to it.
2007-07-25 22:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like lack of confidence, do you realize that God planted a place for you before you were even an idea in you mom"s thoughts ,you just have not found what your purpose is yet , you are special ,important and matter to your parents and friends ,pray and ask for guidance and direction .
2007-07-25 17:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in.... what?
For a girl? Are you treating her right? Are giving her enough space but still loving her/ liking her?
Be more specific
2007-07-25 17:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you aren't up to their standards 0.o
Who cares about what people think about you? Become a alienated, loner like me! :D
2007-07-25 17:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never be good enough till you believe you are good enough.
2007-07-25 17:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by HouAnswerGuy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋