okay here's the thing ever since i went on a date with my boyfriend he doesn't call me any more and it's been a month i need help quick.
2007-07-25 09:52:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay i've been calling him now but he makes up excuses like oh i gotta go or my bettery needs charging i'm starting to think he's avoiding me i can't take it =((
2007-07-26 03:48:44 · update #1
I'd say he has moved on-- you should too.
2007-07-25 09:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. if he hasn't called you in a month How can he be your bf? 2.maybe theres more to this story than you're letting on, but Hopefully you did not sleep with him on your first date. 3.its sounds like you found love on a two way street,but lost it cruising down a lonely highway. 4. you're young. if the relationship was meant to be, there'd be no need for this conversation. know in your heart that as you grow older you are going to meet a lot of his kind along the way. the good news is, by the time you meet up with the guy that is meant for you in this life, you will have all the experience that you'll need to be able to see this type of relationship for what it is and to deal with it, and move on. you're to young to realize that he did you a big favor by making room in your life for someone who will accept you for who and what you are. and not for what you could have or should have been. never sweat the small stuff. life is to short to be wishing on falling stars. end this chapter in your life and get on with the business of living. you've got things to do, and things to see. places to go, and places to be. ditch the dead wood, and get going,you have the rest of your life waiting on you.and so little time in which to live it.
2007-08-02 07:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah -he's not your boyfriend. Sorry to break it to ya, but he is not that interested. Being with someone is not that hard... you need to play hard to get and see if he comes after you, if he doesn't find someone else who is (coming after you) I have an awesome book that got be through all this dating stuff it is called "The Rules". It has been passed down through many people and now I have it, men are never supposed to know about is and that is the first rule..seriously, go get it and follow it, it is super easy to follow. Good luck
2007-08-02 08:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by hawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but I don't think he is interested in having a relationship at this time anymore. My advice to you would be to stop calling him as you are only making yourself upset when he doesn't phone back. Remember that there are PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA and go on with your life! Nothing is more attractive than "Self-Confidence" and who knows - things may change (but don't put all your eggs in one basket). You have to take care of your mental health 1st!!
2007-08-02 09:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by SunnyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the date if u did any thing he dont like if u re clear then it is him so call him if he dont answer write a note and put it in a place u know he will look if he still dont call find a man better some one who makes u happy and move on.
2007-07-25 10:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by D.shines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is avoiding you. confront him about it, he might have done something that he doesn't want to face/tell you about. I would meet him somewhere talk in person with him if he doesn't say anything or makes up another excuse dump him, you can always find another man, there are mant out there
2007-08-02 09:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, get a clue he dont want you so just let him go you deserve better then that, you dont need to be wasting your time like that. But if you must then try to contact him or try to find out wats up with his freinds or get ur females to help you find out on what his up to.
2007-07-25 16:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by nenamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and don't put up with his excuses anymore. I hate to be harsh, but if he wanted to be with you, he would be with you. It wuold be different if this was a one time thing, but a month?
Find yourself a better man.. there are ones out there!
2007-08-02 09:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like most males they think with thier other head and he proly wanted some and if u didnt give it up he proly went and got it else where... forget about him he obviously dont respect u enough to notice that ur still waiting on him.. go find someone who really cares about u and instead of his own needs
2007-08-02 05:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's avoiding you. Just stop calling and try to focus on finding someone who won't treat you this way.
2007-08-02 08:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,if he is your boyfriend, why do you think he is avoiding you? Was this your first date & all of a sudden he is your boyfriend? Did you pick you nose in front of him? What happened? Elaborate....
2007-08-02 08:11:14 · answer #11 · answered by Hermosa bori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋