is it wrong to cheat on your spouse that you been with for almost a year because of sex....well i been dating this guy for 11 months and i was talking to this guy before him and i use to mess around with this guy for alomst a year and i called him today out of the blue and he was telling me how much he was thinking about me and he wants to see me but o love my boyfriend dearly but the other guy is very sexual and i like that about him and he made me remember what we used to do and i got really horny but i dont want to cheat on my boyfriend, i dont wan t to hurt him.but over all my bf and i have sex and we planned on doing it today but we didn't i had to go straight home ...but my boyfriend and i are the sane age but the other guy is 4 years older than me.......what should i do? i dont want to hurt my boyfriend and he' slike my world but i dont want to betray my trust with him but the other guy jus want sex and i just want a one night thing...........
2007-07-25 12:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by Tamika B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a simple thing for you to figure out yourself. I would ask you this. How would you feel if your bf slept with one of his ex's and when you found out he said. Well it was just sex nothing more.
Besides what you are actually telling him is this. He does not stimulate you enough sexually. Maybe you should tell him that for real so he can work on it.
Lastly anytime you sleep with someone else besides the person you are in a relationship with. That is cheating. You can call it all kind of other things or make excuses for it. But the fact is you are breaking the trust between the two of you if you do it.
Good luck
2007-07-25 12:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to what you can Live with. If you can do a one night thing and leave it alone and live with it without it eating away at you or wanting more and more. I feel more then likely you or the other guy will want more sex so it will be more then a 1 night thing. It is hard to live with cheating on someone else. But you are not married but it must be a serious relationship. I would have to say if you think you have a future with him don't cheat on him but if not you are free to do what ever you can live with. God Bless and Good Luck!!
2007-07-25 19:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by richard s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a relationship, we need the following:
Passion, commitment and intimacy.
We also need a person who can fulfill us both, physically and emotionally. You have to now decide which one of those to gentleman has more points with you, and move towards that end, finalize the other relationship.
Otherwise, you will be dividing them among the two, and it may get complicated if the truth comes along one day.
2007-07-25 19:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by kvasir40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is absolutly wrong to cheat on your boyfriend. Do you think that it won't hurt him? You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you love your bf as much as you say then you don't need anyone else.
2007-07-25 19:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one who has to look at yourself in the mirror.
If you're wanting support here for cheating, I don't think you'll get it.
2007-07-25 19:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋