Family & Relationships - 25 July 2007

i have a boyfriend but he move to mexico and i know for sure were never going to see eachother again i'm i stupid for still being w/him??

2007-07-25 13:14:16 · 20 answers · asked by GORGEOUS 4 in Singles & Dating

I won't have to watch him too much longer, but when my mom gets home I'll be expected to babysit him then, too.

He's giving me a headache, hitting me and acting like a brat! What should I do? He's 3, by the way. ^^

2007-07-25 13:13:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

You come from a family were u are one of the three triplets and your house is on fire. Inside the house and the three of you triplets, so who do you save when you can only save one?

2007-07-25 13:12:53 · 7 answers · asked by sully p 1 in Family

What do i say to start a conversation, especially when we're alone.

2007-07-25 13:10:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend has asked me to do some weird things. like she told me instead of forgiving her for doing something wrong, for me to yell at her or if it's bad enough hit her instead. also she told me to ask for what i wanted no mater what. for example she told me to "ask her to flash me in public" I love my girlfriend very much, and i want to make her happy, I just don't want to hurt or humiliate her

2007-07-25 13:09:04 · 22 answers · asked by john m 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guys brother tells me that that guy likes me and cant stop talking about me. but when i try and talk to him he ignores me what do i do about it and why do you think hes acting this way?

2007-07-25 13:08:49 · 6 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever told a girl "COOL T I T S!"?

2007-07-25 13:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by lindseygirl 3 in Singles & Dating

it's happened before..about a year ago, but i had a long talk with my dad and somehow they worked it out. they had another one again, and my dad claims that the house belongs to him (because my mom owns houses in another country) and idk he said don't come back to the house, but when she didn't, he came to get her. i mean, they have had big fights quite a lot, but this is the worst one yet. i feel soo bad. suicidal even. i just don't know what to do..please help. i can't deal with a divorce.

2007-07-25 13:05:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay; my mom has this psycho dog(an evil black toy poodle)- It hates everything and everybody except for my mother. Ever since she got the dog it has barked growled and snarled at me. When it barks at me she blames me for upsetting it and I get yelled and screamed at literally she has told me to shut up at the top or her lungs. She says I intimidate it, but I honestly don't- all I do is walk past it and it gets scared and barks at me. I am on vacation and I told her that her dog was stupid and now she is upset and bought herself AND her dog a ticket back to home; we haven't even been on vacation for more than a day!!! Also it seems that she has lost all her love, respect and compassion for me over her dog. I don't know what to do...

2007-07-25 13:05:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i would like to spend at least 3 or 4 days a week with someone i'm in a relationship with, but my boyfriend can easily go 5 or 6 days without spending time together. he doesn't seem to understand how important it is to spend quality time together - especially this early on in a relationship. when we do get together, i feel like his knack for romantic, fun ideas has gone downhill.

also, he makes certain comments and fails to make others when i believe he should know better. it got to an embarrassing point recently when we went to a wedding together - he hadn't complimented me on my appearance (i'm extremely confident, and know i'm attractive) at all that day, and it only got worse when a guy i had dated my final semester in college came up and told me i looked absolutely stunning. matters only get more annoying when he mentions a new female co-worker that has all the male employees drooling over her "good looks". i'm not jealous - but seriously? thoughts on how i should deal?

2007-07-25 13:04:09 · 9 answers · asked by Izzie 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom with a seven year old daughter. Up until 6 months ago we lived with my parents and siblings, we also shared a room. Six months ago we moved out with my long term boyfriend. Her father is rarely in the picture and she prefers not to see him. My daughter is a wonderful,shy,smart girl. Her one fault is bedtime. She usually goes to bed alright, but I can't get her to stay asleep through the night. She wakes up crying and scared. She wants me with her. She spends alot of weekends at my parents house. She loves it there, and I think its mostly because my mom sleeps with her when she is there. My question is...do i go in and sleep with her when she cries to comfort her? Or do I let her cry and tell her she needs to sleep alone. There has already been so many changes for her recently, I have a hard time doing that. Please lend me your advice. Thanks.

2007-07-25 13:03:55 · 14 answers · asked by mermaidjazz 2 in Family

Went to a baskeball 1st date with this girl from match.com last Friday. Hugged twice, fun date, laid back, etc. Texted her 2 hrs afterwards with, "hey you made that game fun, we should meet up again sometime." I should've ASKED when/if you wanted to meet up again huh? Anyway, she never replied the text, but last night sent me an email on match.com, saying.....

"Hi John,
I just wanted to thank you for coming up and meeting me for the game. :) I had a good time. If only the A’s won! They were playing pretty lousy, I must say.
I liked how w

19 minutes ago
we had a little hot dog eating contest, but that could have just been me.

Don’t work too hard!
[her name]"

Btw, she is going to study abroad in Spain next month/in a month.

Should I reply back...and with WHAT? I do like her, felt a connection/chemistry, but does it seem like she likes me back or would she turn me down/make an excuse?

THANKS, GIRLS NEED ADVICE HERE!

(BEST ANSWER 10 PTS AHAHA)

2007-07-25 13:03:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lara c has been on this board for weeks now misrepresenting herself as a cheated on wife when she is actually an ex girlfriend who has been repeatedly trying to fool people into giving her information on how to break up her exboyfriends marriage. do you think this pregnant , desperate single woman is especially pathetic?

2007-07-25 13:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She broke up with me bc she said i lied to her. but i want another shot...what should i say to her

2007-07-25 13:02:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I met my dad when I was 16 and moved in with him when I was 17, 2 days before my 18th birthday he kicked me out because I'm not respectfull enough for him. I'm 19 now and I moved back in with him in April because he couldn't afford the bill by himself. Ever since I moved in with him he bosses me around and treats me like crap. The power bill is in my name because he has a huge bill. Anyway I stopped staying at the house at the beginning of June because he put a gun to my chest one night when he was mad at me. I have recently found my own place that I move into next Wednesday but I don't know how to tell my dad that I'm moving out. I have been paying rent even though I haven't been staying there so he wont get kicked out. I wont be able to do that now though. I am kinda scard about what he will say/do. I don't want to get the cops involved because of him being my dad. So does anyone have any advice?

2007-07-25 13:00:19 · 31 answers · asked by anf112987 1 in Family

my friend is too much of a wuss to ask questions here and made me do it for him. anyways.

what the hell is wrong with him? he watches porn so much and cant seem to stop. he'd rather watch porn than hang out with his friends or chat with them online and its pissing me off. lol. any solutions to stop the porn-houndedness? serious answers plz.

thx

2007-07-25 13:00:09 · 18 answers · asked by Concerned 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl amanda she is going out with someone that likes me and she said if i ask him out and he says yes she is going top hurt me and she won't be my friend what should i do plese help.

2007-07-25 12:59:38 · 3 answers · asked by Tanya D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-25 12:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

now im 20yrs old and i want to leave the relationship but i feel i need him in my life. i've been with him for 3yrs he has helped me so much in my life. he protects me from anything that comes my way. yet he hurts me so much. he tells me he loves me and i want to believe him but the fact of knowing that his married kills me inside. when i bring the subject up of his wife he tells me he dont kiss her or have any kind of sexual intercourse with her. i want to believe him because he spends so much time with me. ive never have asked him to leave his wife because i knew from the beginning of the relationship he was married. now that we have been together for 3years he has been telling me he wants to leave his home to be with me. im so confussed because i want him to be with me but i dont want him to leave his kids. i tell him to wait two more years until im done with school. but im afraid of what the future might hold for us.

2007-07-25 12:58:15 · 17 answers · asked by why me?? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-25 12:57:45 · 3 answers · asked by kierajanee 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a close friend who just lost her Dad a few weeks ago. Her Mom is in pretty bad shape and may not last long. A bunch of us girls wanted to take our friend to dinner and do something special for her - just to perk her up. She is always doing things for everyone else and we know that she is worn out. Does anyone have any good ideas?

2007-07-25 12:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by Trixie98 1 in Friends

Hey guys,
I want a personal and honest opinion. Would you ever consider going out with a girl who's 5'8"? Or is that to tall for you to take notice?

2007-07-25 12:56:59 · 11 answers · asked by no one 2 in Singles & Dating

what does i love you nikorns mean? is it the same as saying i love you? is nikorns a pet name??? please help me my boyfriend has said it to me a few times and idk how to take it

2007-07-25 12:56:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me a my bf have just started to have sex and i have not been with that many men , and i know he has been with more women, i don't what the deails but im worred that i might not be that good or truely compare with there outher women, and i what us to be safe, the more women hes been with the more he has been exposed to. he gets tested and so do i , and he knows how many men ive been with so its only far that i know how many women hes been with right? or is it just better to not know?

2007-07-25 12:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by purpledragon 1 in Singles & Dating

i found the song that discibes how i feel should i send it to him?

2007-07-25 12:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by beth 1 in Singles & Dating

I have trouble in relationships. Not just bf/gf relationships. With anyone outside my immediate family. I mean at home, I'm an extrovert. but in the outside world it is just SO hard for me to talk. The most simple conversations are almost impossible. I guess, i just make people feel uncomfortable or something. And the worst part is, I hate being like this. I just want to be me, everywhere. What can I do?

2007-07-25 12:52:25 · 12 answers · asked by Dr. C∂ƒƒee £ips :} 4 in Singles & Dating

I went up recently to join the gym, but when I was given the tour of the place the sales representative came out of nowhere and questioned me if I had a bf..and if not am I looking for one..I said not really and he changed his question to you have alot to choose from here. So then anytime Im there..or if I have a question he'll want me to stay longer and chat with him. He tells me things I didnt ask him..in great detail..and he gives me the look you know..but Im sorta like does he like like me..or is he just doing his job..because I havent seen him act the way he does with me with other females..it's weird..lol

2007-07-25 12:50:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend, well ex boyfriend and i broke up a week ago and i cried for the first two days. then i pulled myself together and said to myself that i wouldnt let some guy tear me to pieces like that.

but i saw him today since our breakup and when i got home i just broke down and couldnt stop crying. i still am too.

when we first made eye contact, he smiled at me and i tried to smile back but it just wouldn't come to my face.
he said he wants to be friends, but i don't know if i'm ready for that. he was the first person beside my grandfather that i had ever cared about.
i love him, i want to be friends but just looking at him makes my stomache flip flop in a bad way.

i just want to talk to him or something. we were together for so long, and i dont know how i'm going to get use to not being in his arms, or going without his kisses. or his wonderful hugs that make me feel like i'm on top of the world.

give me some ways to get over my first love. please.

2007-07-25 12:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by {♥} 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to work out if its his dog, best mate or his partner.

2007-07-25 12:49:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I would just like to know if black girls are generally attracted to white guys and whether they find some white guys hot or not?
If you are a black girl, are you attracted to a white guy???

2007-07-25 12:47:28 · 31 answers · asked by christie_crizy 1 in Singles & Dating