me a my bf have just started to have sex and i have not been with that many men , and i know he has been with more women, i don't what the deails but im worred that i might not be that good or truely compare with there outher women, and i what us to be safe, the more women hes been with the more he has been exposed to. he gets tested and so do i , and he knows how many men ive been with so its only far that i know how many women hes been with right? or is it just better to not know?
2007-07-25 12:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by purpledragon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Better safe than sorry. It is right fo ryou to have all these questions because you are trying to be responsible. So please take the time to talk to him honestly about your concerns. If he doesn't think it's fair for you to know, then you are better off w/o him. Good Luck.
2007-07-25 13:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not important if you want to be safe both of you should get tested or use protection but to ask how many partners he has had is tacky and for you to tell or him to ask is tacky too what happens before you all were together is the past leave it there
2007-07-25 20:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by anthentherwasi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people say it shouldn't matter.
I disagree. Given what we now know about HPV, cervical cancer, and the like, I believe every person has the right to ask about another prospective partner's sexual history. Of course, the other person also has the right to refuse that information.
Your bugs (and you will have them) will become his bugs. His bugs (and he will have them) will become your bugs.
Wake up, people.
2007-07-25 19:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just better not to know IMHO..
The answer to this question never seems to satisfy the person who askedf it and it usually opens up a new can of worms.
2007-07-25 20:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by luckyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never EVER compare yourself to someone else. Not in anything. Sex, job, talent.
Be an original. If he can't take it - fooey on him!
2007-07-25 19:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Max Marie, OFS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know, you want to know.
I don't ask, but that's just me.
2007-07-25 19:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋