Went to a baskeball 1st date with this girl from match.com last Friday. Hugged twice, fun date, laid back, etc. Texted her 2 hrs afterwards with, "hey you made that game fun, we should meet up again sometime." I should've ASKED when/if you wanted to meet up again huh? Anyway, she never replied the text, but last night sent me an email on match.com, saying.....
"Hi John,
I just wanted to thank you for coming up and meeting me for the game. :) I had a good time. If only the A’s won! They were playing pretty lousy, I must say.
I liked how w
19 minutes ago
we had a little hot dog eating contest, but that could have just been me.
Don’t work too hard!
[her name]"
Btw, she is going to study abroad in Spain next month/in a month.
Should I reply back...and with WHAT? I do like her, felt a connection/chemistry, but does it seem like she likes me back or would she turn me down/make an excuse?
THANKS, GIRLS NEED ADVICE HERE!
(BEST ANSWER 10 PTS AHAHA)
2007-07-25 13:03:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would keep looking for another opportunity to go out again and get to know her and her interests and her way of communicating. When you get to know her more, you will get a better idea of how to ask and when and where. Your natural curiosity is meant to inspire you to dig deeper and seek more information and understanding, so go for it. If you don't know, ask about her and her ideas/thoughts/interests. Then you can share more about your response to that and get to know each other better.
Also if she is going off to Spain, ask about how you can keep in touch. Sometimes writing or other means of communicating can help you learn more and grow in other ways you may not have otherwise. So again, follow any opportunity to get to know each other better. Go for it. The worst that could happen is that you gain a friend, and the best is that there could be more in your future.
2007-07-25 13:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Nghiem E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you missed rule # 1 of the good date, which is to make the plans for the second date during the first date. I think you should not call her cause she didn't give you the signals that she wants to keep in touch. If you really want to hang out with her again just to check it out and see if you are sure try emailing her that you have tickets to another game and see if she wants to go?
If you get no response or she says no then you have your answer
2007-07-25 13:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by The thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shez just not into U--sorry...did she write back ;-*) = kissy face...or U?? I'm still kinda confused but um....if she hasn't spent ya any texts, called ya, emailed ya things like that..thatz a HUGE hint!! Just wait a couple of days and if she wants 2 talk 2 ya again..trust me she'll find some way 2 do that...don't call her or anything until she says something back and don't think bout it 2 much...go do somethin~and Have fun!~
2016-05-18 04:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I replied to this question before!! Ask her if she wants to hang out again!!!
2007-07-25 13:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋