I went up recently to join the gym, but when I was given the tour of the place the sales representative came out of nowhere and questioned me if I had a bf..and if not am I looking for one..I said not really and he changed his question to you have alot to choose from here. So then anytime Im there..or if I have a question he'll want me to stay longer and chat with him. He tells me things I didnt ask him..in great detail..and he gives me the look you know..but Im sorta like does he like like me..or is he just doing his job..because I havent seen him act the way he does with me with other females..it's weird..lol
2007-07-25 12:50:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doing your job doesn't usually include checking if the clientele is dating or not. You may have put him off by saying you're not looking for a boyfriend.
He's been persistent enough to spend as much time as possible with you. This usually spells interest.
Are you interested?
The next time he talks to you, suggest getting together outside his work.
If he's interested, he should jump at the chance
Maybe, (just maybe), he's doing his job, and he's interested too.
Luck
2007-07-25 12:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is apparent this guy likes you and wants to initiate something.However, while I agree that he may be coming on a little bit strong, I do not see anything in what you have written to qualify him or his actions as weird.Also the fact that you sit down with him for these "chats" suggests that you like the attention, like him ,or are leading him on.If I am wrong and you have no interest in him-romantically- then stop all this chit-chat that you have with him.This should send him the message of non-interest and keep any future contact to matters relating to your membership, assuming this is what you want which I am not so sure about.
2007-07-25 13:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible he likes you, but remember, he is a SALESMAN. Making the ladies feel special prior to the sale IS a tactic, whether you're buying a car, a gym membership or a piece of furniture. Could be only one way to find out. Don't sign up, tell him you want more time to think about it, then ask him out!
2007-07-25 12:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he likes you but if you aren't looking for anything then just be polite when he comes by with all his questions and information. Eventually he will get the hint. If he begins to bug you then you can one or two things.. avoid him or tell him straight out that he is on you too hard and to back up. But in a nice way! LOL
2007-07-25 12:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sales people are so skeevy. If he wasn't in sales, I'd say he's all over you. But he might just be playing you. Wait until he makes a move (if you actually like him).
2007-07-25 12:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably changed the subject during your tour, because of you said not really. He thought you meant yes.
2007-07-25 12:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by ..jennyluvz.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you whether you had a boyfriend and whether you are looking for one, he likes you, for sure. Trust me, asking women whether they are in a relationship and whether or not they are looking for one is not in the job description of a sales representitive!
2007-07-25 12:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by flomsoc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asked you if you had a BF then yes he is interested.
If you wanna go out with him chat him up a bit and eventually he will get to it, right now he is just trying to figure out his odds and how to approach ya, help the guy out.
2007-07-25 12:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to give you a private personal work out.
2007-07-25 12:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the first guy said is so right! he probably just wants to make sure he's got a chance before he asks you out or smthing : )
2007-07-25 12:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. C∂ƒƒee £ips :} 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋