hello i met a girl in January 2007 we fall in love and we talk continuously 14 hour/daily with each other but due to some family dispute i told her (in july) that our marriage is not possible she look upset that time but right after 2 days her marriage is fixed .. and after 2 days i realize i cant live without her so i call her and talk to her but she refuse. I talk to her mother she said come and take her but again girl is not agree she is saying its not good. her mother told me that they want me to marry her her father dont like that guy but due to some circumstances they fix that marriage and he is saying now he will refuse that guy but now my love is saying this is not possible cause everyone knows her engagement is fixed. please help me guy i want my love back what should i do now.
2007-07-25 13:24:03 · 10 answers · asked by aryan181 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would consult with a religious elder who respects the idea that people should not marry the wrong partner; that a marriage should never take place in disharmony and discord, but all issues and questions shoujld be resolved first.
Can you pick someone that all the family members respect, and especially include the other potential groom. Is there a proper etiquette to follow when such conflicts or entanglements happen? Surely if the other potential groom knew that there was a mixup, he might relinquish and let you and her work it out as originally planned. Can you find a counselor, church or family friend to act as a facilitator or mediator? Surely this can be worked out, if everyone acts reasonably and does not try to hide or suppress conflict but seeks to resolve it amicable where relations are natural and harmonious again.
2007-07-25 13:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Nghiem E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen man first time u had a concern towards ur family and did not have any feelings for her love and now she is concerned for her parents
but yes do one thing go to her say her who much u love make her realise that how much she loved u
say her sorry beg for ur love
if not there is one more way but difficult it is 1 1/2 yrs since u no her so just catch her and kiss her hope some thing happens and remember don't hurt her for the next time if problem gets solved bye take care and fight till the end
2007-07-25 21:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that her parent like u, it's has one part in ur hand, so first go to her parents then request them to talk to her and explain her that: "my kids, u sure that u love the 2nd one? don't bcs of anger u kill ur future life, it's not benefits to u. U will always disappointed bcs u choose the wrong person or the person u never love. Give the 1st excuse then start ur harmony with the one u love. Tell the 2nd one that actually u couldn't love him bcs u can't forget the 1st even u r very good to me but he still in my mine, so i don't want u to be hurt in the future bcs living with me." Then it's ur turn, do ur best to have time to meet her, apologise her, tell her u will never do that again. Since u lost her, u were always up set, lonely. U can't live without her. "Tell me what can I do to let u give me abundant, if u want me to died, i can just angry with me". After these suggestions i think it have some powerful to change her opinion.
2007-07-25 14:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Pick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talking to her until you finally get through to her. maybe she was just hurt by your refusal in the beginning. you have to tell her how much you love her. because it seems she wanted to marry you too, and if you don't convince her, she'll make the biggest mistake of her life and live to regret it. it seems her parents want you to marry her to, so it's only up to her. ask her if she still loves you and tell her you can't live without her.
anyway, good luck and all the best in the future
2007-07-25 14:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lankan Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is some Jerry Springer stuff! Good Luck if she really wanted you she would leave the guy even if it is a fixed marriage.
2007-07-25 13:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Whoa!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect, you have close friendship for 6 months then tell her you cant marry her, what women wouldnt be upset, you have really hurt her one minute you want her next you dont then you realise you cant live without her make up your mind.
2007-07-25 14:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by platformer70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 20:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet her with her parents and your parents and give her the confidence and convince her!!
2007-07-25 17:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it rest. If it was ment to be it will be. have faith.
2007-07-25 13:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by shante 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
W H A T ??????????????????
2007-07-25 13:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋