What real man would turn his back on his 2 year old daughter to be a father figure to another womans daughter?

Answer 1

Possibly, a man that is sick and tired of your crap and wants out the marriage/relationship. I'm sure he didn't turn his back on his daughter, he was just tired of your SHlT and turned his back on you. You are just framing the question to make this poor guy look bad. You're not fooling me. I'm sure he'd welcome his daughter with open arms.


For those of you calling me a coward, the point I'm trying to make is there are 2 sides to every story. It is highly unlikely that a father would turn his back on a 2 year old for any reason. There is a reason the man left. This person asking the question is not disclosing the reason. What can a 2 year old possibly do to make their father leave. I'm sure you two were arguing constantly around this poor 2 year old and it was probably best that the man left the mom. I'm sure he didn't turn his back on the child. The mother is the one that made the father leave. She's probably refusing to let the father see his daughter too. Please people, do not let this soul person fool you.

One more thing, I'm sure all the thumbs down I got are from crazy controlling women while the thumbs up are from men that are sane.

Answer 2

That is not a man, because a man handles all his business, and does not garner this confusion. Now this monkey person has a point to a certain point, but in large, he does not seem to be able to accept that males today really do throw the baby out with the bathwater, they try to please the other woman by denying or not involving with the original children! This is wrong and indeed cowardice, and on the other hand, what type of woman would be with a man that does not account for his own! A whore for sure! Raise the bar and stop accepting these cowards and remember, it's about the kids, irregardless so men and woman don't get it twisted.

Answer 3

Weird question. Obviously only a scumbag would turn his back on his own child and turn into a deadbeat dad. On the other hand, stepping up and being a father figure to someone else's child is the mark of a real man. The two parts of your question do not go together at all.

I'm inclined to agree with the first answerer (though less harshly). I very strongly doubt that the same man could be capable of doing both things. You sound like you're framing the question to make him look bad, but I don't really buy it. Remember that your daughter's welfare is the most important thing, and please don't use her as some sort of tool to 'get even' with your ex. That would be nearly as awful as child abuse. Both you and your ex need to pull yourselves together and stop acting like children - make sure that you both do all you can to give your daughter some stability and a good environment.

Answer 4

I dont have time to read everyone's answer. But Indiana Mom - stop your BS. Just because someone burned you in your relationship, doesn't mean you have to take it out on others. Everyone has a right to their own opinion without threats from you!

Aside from that, we do not know the whole situation here. My father ran out on my mother soon as I was born. He is one of the nicest men you will ever meet, he is in my life now and I understand why he left. Things did not work out with them, and they could not get along in order to both be in my life at that time. We can all say they should put their differences aside, but we do not know the details here. I'm sure there must be some really bad things going on in this relationship in order for it to end up this way.

Some people just like to make other people look bad! Like some said, it's possible she is refusing to let him see the children. But I'm sure she will not be saying that part in her question. Do they even live near each other or even in the same state? I mean there are so many possiblities of why he is not seeing his children. Mentioning that his new relationship has a child involved makes absolutely no sense. He is not allowed to date anyone with children when he obviously has one of his own?

What they need is therapy - not people from Yahoo taking sides when we don't know the full story. (Which there are always two sides to, I must add)

Answer 5

Here is another point of view. I know of one situation where the man has 3 kids with his ex wife, and is a strong father figure to his girlfriend's daughter. His ex wife took their kids to another state and will not allow contact of any kind between the kids and their father. He loves his kids more than life itself, but if he were to go there she would have him arrested on trumped up charges. She has poisoned the kids against him. They think everything is his fault. I have seen first hand how he is with his GF's child and can see from their interaction he is a wonderful father. I can't help but wonder if this is what you have done, but are blaming him just because he has choosen to be with someone else. If that is the case, you are so very wrong. Of course, if it is the case you are not going to see what you are doing is wrong because people who do this are very selfish and self-centered.

Answer 6

I have known many women who have done this very thing as well. More to your question though... A REAL man wouldn't do such a thing and certainly no responsible person would. However there are those out there that have no common decency to them at all. This is what area I would place any man who would walk out on his wife and daughter to get with different set of woman and daughter. If this is something that is happening to you, then hang this guy in court for what ever you can get and then stay away from him in the future. He is not worth your time now and probably wont be in the future either.

Answer 7

Agree Chris
always 2 sides to the story -
- and not always the man at fault, -
I raised my daughter on my own since she was 3,
when her mother thought drink/drugs/parties more fun than being a mother !

You have to take the attitude that these things happen for a reason, and perhaps better a child is raised by 1 loving parent, than two who argue and fight all the time -

Answer 8

Possibly a man that doesn't see any other way out of a bad situation with you.
Were you 2 fighting alot that has caused this and he didn't want to subject his daughter to that?
I'm not accusing you, I'm just looking at it another way.
If that's not the case, then he's a coward.
Face it that's why God gave us Mother's the Motherly instinct, in order to protect the children from all causes.

I really hope, for your daughter's sake , that he doesn't walk out on her. That will scar her for life. Just knowing that her dad didn't want her.

Good luck to you and your daughter.

Answer 9

he prefers the other woman more than his daughters mom, he is avoiding the child because the new woman is running the show and encourages him to avoid the child so he won't have to deal with the mom. alot has to do with the new woman feeling threatened so she may be the one keeping him from the child, but he is a coward and not a real man if he isn't standing up to his new love. he needs to take care of his biological child before he takes care of someone Else's child.

Answer 10

There are 2 sides to every story. I'm sure you 2 argued in front of that poor little girl all the time. No one will just turn their back on a 2 year old for no reason. Something else happened that you're not telling us. You are just trying to make yourself look good and him look bad. Why did he leave you? Did he just wake up one sunny morning and leave? I don't think so.

Answer 11

has he REALLY turned his back on his real daughter or is he treating them BOTH like his real daughters and that makes you mad?
or is it that he is raising a child with another woman and your having to live alone and do it?
or did you treat him like crap so he is trying to stay away from you and in turn it means he HAS to stay away from his "real" daughter?