i want to tell her how i feel and confide in her about things, but i know that, even though she'll be cool with it with me, she'll start talking behind and in front of me and making fun of me because of the guy im inlove with. How do i deal with her? do i just ignore her or do i just not confide in her for anything?
2007-07-25 19:30:50 · 11 answers · asked by k9pup316 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think she is a hypocrit, a hypocrit is somone who tells you don't do this but then they go out and do just that. It seems she is just trying to annoy you cos she knows you love this boy, if you don't want her doing that anymore, then don't tell het stuff keep it to yourself and if she asks you how is everthing and wants to talk then you can bring it up with her that you don't feel comfortable telling her cos you don't want her making fun of you, maybe she isn't ware that it hurts your feelings??.
2007-07-25 19:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every mother is like that, it's just the way the make the at Mothers' R Us.
I'm a guy so I can handle my own emotional and social crap, but girls have to turn to their mothers for all that. So it's either go emo or talk to your mom.
She probabaly making fun of you based on the fact that she knows you really don't love him, although you think you do, or she thinks the guy is a looser, and he very well could be. Buy either way she gets a kick out of it cause it's something to get a kick out of.
Doesn't she pay for you food, room, clothes, etc? The truth is, every female a is a hypcrit and it's just part of dealing with them.
2007-07-26 02:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since she has no respect for you or your feelings then yes, you need to not confide in her. If she asked what's going on, just tell her not much and talk about other things. Trust goes both ways.
2007-07-26 02:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mum about how you feel and that you would like to confide in her but if she cant respect your feelings then tell her that you will stop telling her stuff.
2007-07-26 02:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the next time she does that just look at her kinda sad and hurt and say well then I guess I just wont tell you anything. That will hurt her feeling a little but she will understand that she is not taking you seriously and that hurts your feelings. Good luck sweet pea. :)
2007-07-26 02:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing to do for you is to just come up to her and tell her you need to sit down and talk to her. when you do, you just tell her how you feel about what she is doing and ask her if she could stop. explain to her that you want to tell her your feeling but its not ok with you and that you are hurt by her actions. you feel not supported and that you feel no trust in her. and if she continues laughing about your situation that you will have to "shut her down" from your personal life.
2007-07-26 03:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your mom. Ask her to keep everything in confidence, or you will quit telling her anything. That should scare her.
2007-07-26 02:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confide in her and let her know you can't confide in her due to lack of trust.
2007-07-26 02:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away when she starts annoying you...
Good
Luck
^ ^
2007-07-26 02:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother want to compete with you instead in helping you or give you good advice as a mother.
2007-07-26 02:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋