Its' been 2 weeks but it's still very hard to deal with my bf leaving me while I'm 7 mos preggo. He wanted this baby as much as I did. I am a responsible adult with a great job and I know things will be okay. It wasn' t that strong of a relationship at times and then things were good. I don't know if he got scared or if he ever really loved me. I know he's lied to me and I'm not sure if there's someone else. I have always done everything for him, even when he was short on money. To say the least, yes he is a loser, but i miss him and I still love him. I know I'm better off, he just acts like nothing phases him. I feel very vulnerable and alone, even though my friends are supportive. Family is far away but they are going to be here for the birth ,It's hard to stay strong. I just want answers which I know I'll never get. How does someone just abandon their supposed loved one and unborn child.
2007-07-25 18:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We've been together for 2 years. It's amazing what you don't know about a person after all that time.
2007-07-25 18:44:08 · update #1
I put the baby crib together tonight and just lost it. I know I have to keep busy but it's hard.
2007-07-25 18:54:01 · update #2
Maybe he freaked at all of the responsibility a baby is going to be. Could be it just hit him. If he abandoned you and his unborn child, he is selfish and you don't need that around you. Life is going to be hard enough. Have you considered moving closer to your family?
2007-07-25 18:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I've told you before, try to forget about him..... and if you're in need of a bit of online company, i'm rarely off Yahoo messenger (same ID used here).
As to how does someone just abandon their supposed loved one + unborn child? It would seem rather easily, as last couple of months I've been getting driven nuts 'cos two of my best online friends have come crawling out of the woodwork after several months out of contact, to find they'd had babies with someone else (who was no longer around)..... which I wasn't too chuffed about, seeing as even though they lived about 4000miles away in Oklahoma + Kentucky, I wanted to be more than just friends with them.
2007-07-25 20:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 19 and engaged we got pregnant. He told me that if I still wanted to marry him that I would have to have an abortion but we could get pregnant right after we got married. I kept my baby and got rid of him.
You are better off and right now for every hour that you can you just try and focus on your health and your baby. This isn't easy but will be worth it.
I was alone with my Brenna for 12 yrs before I got married and had my son, now 2 1/2 and it wasn't always easy or great but it was worth it.
Good luck!
2007-07-25 18:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if words can help right now. I look to the stars for hope sometimes. I think their is always greatness beyond me when I have very little in my life or when my life is hard to bare. I know the stars can't help right now. I look to family and friends for comfort sometimes. I think their is always comfort in knowing that we are cared for when life is hard to bare. I know friends and family can't help right now. I look to understanding sometimes in hope that what I know will give me strength when my life is hard to bare but the memory and pain of what has happened always resurfaces. I know understanding can't help right now. I look to God for help sometimes. I think their is always greatness knowing that their is someone watching over me when my life is hard to bare. And despite what has been done to you, you hold a gift within you that is more precious then the stars, understanding, and comfort. I know it is God that can help you right now and it is your love that helps all the time. That is why you were chosen to carry a child for God. That is why you are strong enough to bare. be strong....:o), you are not alone.
2007-07-25 20:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i've been divorced twice. and i have found out the hard way that when its time to grow up that men tend to run for the hills. i don't think anyone can explain it, it's just the way that they are. sorry for what you are going thru. don't give up.
2007-07-26 15:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f-him....as long as you have friends you and
the baby will be loved....he was a sperm donor,
so at least thank him for that.
2007-07-25 18:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by bwj1963 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋