i dont feel anything.
2007-07-25 20:24:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're not in the right mindset. You need to masturbate and find out what works for you. Then try it with your husband. If it doesn't work, go see a counselor.
2007-07-25 20:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by heartshapedmailbox 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ther are so many books on the subjest what's the difficulty.Each person has there own person need.Get books at the library with illistrations and read up on your anatomy.then u and pardoner work to gether to find the thing u really like. You both sound very eniexperienced. It's like the education motto no one left behind , he's responsible for that.You need a lot of stimulation to reach the point u want,including mental .There are counslors to help u if u 2 can't get it together.wish u results.
2007-07-26 03:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by oatesmokid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyones different. R u really attracted 2 him? Does he try 2 please u or is he just interested in his own pleasure? My bf does alot 2 please me and always thinks of me 1st. Talk 2 him about it explore eachother 2 see what works 4 you both or even try solo so you know what works for you. If u dont feel anything at all then theres def something wrong even if you dont reach orgasm u should still be feeling something!!! Theres so many things you can do. Maybe go 2 a sex shop get some toys or lube or whatever takes your fancy. Makesure you feel comfortable and sexy!! And make him work for it tell him no sex till he makes you orgasm in other ways eg tongue thats always guranteed if he knows what his doing!! If he dont then instruct him be a bit dominanting hel like it! Now i could go on 4ever so contact me if youv got ne other questions - sex is my fave subject. lol!
2007-07-26 03:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When have you started your sexual life?
If you&your partener would play with each other for at least 30 min before the contact you might enjoy more.
Have a chat about it and stroke and touch each others body.
This way you wil both know how the other half feels pleasure.
If it doesn't work try the clitoris...
2007-07-26 05:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by AlinutaUK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes more than a touch for you to reach an orgasm. Try exploring your body yourself & then show your husband when it feels good.
2007-07-26 03:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ĕrotic Ńightmare 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Breasts! Ask him to touch them gently, carress them and tease your nipples. Remember, very gently. Then move on to your clitoris. Nips and clitoral stimulations can work wonders if done at the same time, properly.
If all's fails, watch porn. Honestly. It's not that bad. It's very educational. Or else, try masturbating so you know how you want to be touched, or if you enjoy reading, read many self-help books.
2007-07-26 04:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by like-it 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you an alien?will you mutate,girl why you wanna be an organism when humans are so exciting!
Okay just kidding:
Ask him for a long foreplay,start by kissing and rubbing then let him suck your breasts or give you oral sex.The rest is up to you two...
Goodluck
2007-07-26 06:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by sanam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 play. And I have said that to a lot of people. It does not work when it is wam! bam! than you mam! Try 4play. The part of your body? Let him try your inner thigh that work great for me!
2007-07-26 03:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by nadia d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to touch you or lick till he finds the spot, but you have to assist and communicate with him and let him know if he is near the spot that will make YOU orgasm !
2007-07-26 03:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by lasdoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um maybe you aren't that attracted to him or he could be way inexperienced. the Clit is one of the spots that is supposed to turn a girl on at least, and its not that hard to find. having him go down on you or mess with your n*pples is good too.
2007-07-26 03:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋