Please, only serious answers... (please)
Its not a huge issue, but I've noticed a decline in me and my husbands sex drive.
He usually wants a quicky in the morning when I pretty much just get mad and tell him I'm going to be late to work.
Other than that, we probably havent had sex for about a week and a half (maybe more?).
Is this just called "marriage"?
Or is he bored?
Wants some strange?
Time schedules just off?
Medical or psycological condition (like lack of motivation).
He seems to have some health problems here and there but it just seems like a downward cycle.
We are having less and less sex....
Feedback appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
2007-07-25 20:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by Candice C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Been together for 3 years. Married for 2.
Had sex pretty much everyday or every other day before, with some relaps here and there.
Maybe it is a "comfortable" stage.
2007-07-25 20:30:41 · update #1
Why don't you just ask your HUSBAND!!!!!
NO I'M NOT JUST GETTING USED TO YOU.
Signed,
Her Husband
P.S. I love You
2007-07-26 23:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by The Morning Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A simple question for you: How often do you initiate sex? Do you just wait for him to make a move? And then knock him back when he does because you'll be late for work? Because if that's the pattern, it's not surprising that his level of interest has dropped off.
Its not unusual for the amount of sex to drop off over time, but you don't have to just accept that as inevitable. Check with your husband about what else is going on in his life. If his work has suddenly become a lot busier, then yes he will have less energy for sex. A medical condition is possible, so don't be afraid to get that checked out if you think its a real possibility.
2007-07-26 04:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tim N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long you have been married or what your normal sex life was before. Anyway your ideas could be correct. Or he is getting comfortable in this relationship, and doesn't feel he has to impress you, therefore he is happy with that morning quickie. Best to talk to him first before making any assumptions.
2007-07-26 03:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by bobcatlady2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to the doctor for a physical, it can be all of the above. Life isn't meant to be boring, its meant to be an adventure.
2007-07-26 03:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the morning sex for him for awhile and see if it picks him up after awhile. sex is sex, even if its just a quickie. you gotta start somewhere. if i dont get any i just jerk it. not my loss.
2007-07-26 03:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by partly smart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erectial desfuction. from your typing he needs to see a .dr. on this matter. my opion?
2007-07-26 03:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I emailed my answer. kinda personal
2007-07-26 03:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by pchickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋