i need help!!
2007-07-25 19:51:11 · 24 answers · asked by dylan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its a bad idea. You basiclly letting someone to use you.
2007-07-25 19:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Glenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing with that is the there is always the problem of getting "too" attached and then when the opposite party finds a g/f or b/f there is always a chance of jealousy setting in and there is where the trouble starts..Your friendship get into a mess and then the chance of infedelity arising and then what ground you stand on..etc etc...So if you are in a relationship like that then do not get attached...have fun, but if it is getting to you and ur emotions are at a peak...then talk to ur friend and hopefully you guys can form a formal relationship of g/f and b/f..Good Luck!
2007-07-26 02:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What bo you mean buy benifits. Who has the best of the benifits you or him. He give you thing. But you sleep with him. So you sould make sure that he take of you..Reggie
2007-08-03 01:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by bigreggie814 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your morals. Do you think it's bad? I, personally, don't think it's a big deal as long as you both understand where you're going with the relationship (or not going for that matter) and you don't have a boyfriend, because cheating is BAD.
2007-07-26 02:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Wayward Leigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Girls especially cannot include "benefits" with friends without their emotions becoming involved and its just a way for boys to use them. Why put yourself in that postion? Whoever coined this phrase knew exactly what they were doing. Giving girls a false sense of hope that they would be in a certain special relationship that "might" go someplace when in reality all it is, is a means to an end for the boy. Please do not even consider this. This is a bad bad bad IDEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-02 07:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by billies35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just means that you are having sex along with your friendship, and it means nothing. If it is bad it is your fault. I think you are flirting with danger because you may just get stuck with a person you do not want to be with forever. Get out and find other friends that do not demand anything out of your friendship.
2007-08-01 18:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it is a SUPER-BAD idea. There is a stigma that will always follow that behavior. It's the law of consequences. Someday you will look back on it with deep regrets. But it will be too late. And you won't be able to "un-do" it.
2007-07-26 02:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by NotScarry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. A true friend would not do anything to hurt you. Because when you stop giving the benefits this person will have no need for you.He or She will move on to the next one. Please value yourself you were created for so much more than this.
2007-07-26 02:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by chocolatelovely2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possibly unless you are truly a friend to your shelf and the benifit.
2007-08-01 19:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Andre' F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really bad. and you're asking for a date with doctor death at the same time. because he's sleeping with others besides you. 2. when you do this you're giving up your self respect. its either all or nothing. if he can't bring it. throw it back for one who will. there are to many fish in the sea,for you to be playing mind games with a guppy.
2007-07-30 18:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be in a relationship i don't think it's bad but remember to always have safe sex or you could end up with a sti and or get pregnant.
2007-07-26 02:58:15 · answer #11 · answered by lbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋