seriously i dont know, but i really love her, and want to marry her, but its her habit to talk others even before me on the cell fone. whenever i see that i get anger over her, and shouted, but she said you think me wrong, but its my job, I am not narrow minded she said, and somehow she even said to me that it you continue your jealous habit I will leave you...what shoul I do? How can I overcome it? I think she doesnt love me more...
2007-07-25 19:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop getting jealous!!
it's a part of every day living you can't shut her off from the rest of the world you just have to remember at the end of the day she's with you because she loves you and no body else! :)
2007-07-25 19:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will only destroy you ...you must not get so jealous because all your gonna do is draw her away from you ...and number one you must have trust in her that shes not gonna go do something behind your back....if you continue with the jealous stuff she will leave you ...no woman likes to be controlled by a jealous man...ease up and have trust in her...u are very insecure...go out and buy a few books and read and learn how to over come your insecurities and overcome them....take care good luck u can over come it read and learn
2007-07-26 03:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant she talk to other ppl thats f ucked up. U talk to ppl all the time but u dont think anything of it b/c u know u love her. Well she feel the exact same way. Just b/c she talks to a guy doesn't mean she wants to have sex with him. U ARE being narrow minded and u need to stop or she is gunna leave u and I wouldnt blame her
2007-07-26 02:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it: Why would you get jealous of her talking to her cousins? Do you know how silly that sounds?
Look, if it was an ex or a guy she liked, it could be different.... but a cousin? You're just too obsessive and need to chill. Trust in her to stay with you. If you keep this craziness up, she will leave you no doubt about it....I would leave you if we were dating.
Ease up on her, relax...trust her.
2007-07-26 02:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repress it. Use your common sense about acting on your jealousy. Jealousy is an instinctive reaction, in some cases it may not benefit you, use your mind to decide. If it's her cousins, you should probly repress your jealous urges. If it's for work and she's not being flirty with the guy, repress it. Just calm yourself down mentally, rationally... be a man.
Craig
2007-07-26 02:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Craig A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust her and realize it's YOU who have a problem, not her. It's her business and FAMILY, not random guys she meets on the streets and gives them her number so she can go cheat on you.
Sounds like you have a lot of insecurity, maybe from past relationships? I suggest maybe some therapy or self-help books to get over it.
2007-07-26 02:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rabbyt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust her. You can't expect her not to talk to any other guy ever. Also other guys will try to hit on her but it's not her fault because thats what us guys do. But if she's into you then you don't have to worry about a thing.
2007-07-26 02:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to grow up buddy!!!! How would you feel if she was always doing that to you?? You are acting immature and foolish. If you continue to do so, my guess is that she will leave you when she gets enough of it.
2007-07-26 02:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its something you have to deal with daily it isn't something that you can get rid of easily, you have to train yourself to shake it off without reacting badly first. I mean unless you have proof she is going with other guys then you need to try to shake this jealousy thing because its deadly to a relationship.
2007-07-26 02:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should just be happy you love her so much. Tell her that it's just because you love her. She probablt thinks your just jalous and contrilling when what your really saying is "i love you and i want your attention, and I want you to love me back." Explain to her why your so jealous.
2007-07-26 04:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by ♪♫britt♪♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋