I love my hubby very much, but he hates me a lot. we married only 2.5 months back. He doesnt want even to talk at home casually. even he doesnt talk to me. he treats me like a dog & doesnt give any kind of love n affection. he cant tolerate even if i talk to others. i tried talking with him about our future but he is least bothered n says that he ll not get any kind love on me even in future. what should i do? i want this relation ship to be contunied and has to be solved b/w we two only as even elders also cannot do anything. We are not like husband n wife in any kind. What step should i take further? plzz help me
2007-07-25 23:58:06 · 4 answers · asked by anusha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why did you marry him? Did you not know what he was like before the wedding? Was this an arranged marriage or something.
Leave him. You can't save a marriage if both partners are not willing.
2007-07-26 00:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this an arranged marriage? If so, can you speak to the people who arranged your marriage or to the person who performed the ceremony to explain how horrible this is for the two of you? I know someone who was in an arranged marriage and when it was discovered that her husband was treating her very badly, they went to the elder and he made it so they were no longer married.
I know you said you love him but you are not getting anything positive out of this relationship and he will just grow to resent you even more.
2007-07-26 10:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jbuns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for that but i want to give u advice.if ur husband is not giving u love than their must must be something due to which ur husband is not interested on u may be ur husband having affairs with other girl or due to some buisness problem .well u try to find out whats going on and ask him if he dont have any interest on u than y he married u ?ok all the best hope u will soon get rid out of this.
2007-07-26 07:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is hard but u should ask him why he married you with was supposed to be his commitments to your relationship see wat he says if he still doesnt care or sounds sarcastic get a divorce and find somebodi better cause there are alot of people out there who would care for you but if he sounds lyke he cares and gives a decent answer give him another shot
2007-07-26 07:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by The King 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋