and i like him but we only went out once. so since we only went out once im not sure if were gonna be bf gf. the problem is he really wanted to have sex with me. i was uncomfortable with that cause i hardly know him, but i would like to keep seeing him and im not sure if hes gonna stop seeing me if i dont have sex with him, i wanna get to know him better but i dont wanna have sex just yet. so should i have sex with him anyway just to keep him or what should i do? any advice would be great! thanks
2007-07-25 23:36:01 · 13 answers · asked by Gerard Way is the Boss 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok if hes asking to have sex after going out once, then it sounds like hes not interested in a long term relationship. So that answers your first question, your not bf and gf, and you probably won't be. He doesn't seem like that kind of guy for you, i think you deserve a lot better then him. You should NEVER, have to have sex with someone to keep them around. I think that as hard as it may seem, you should just stop seeing him, because i feel this relationship could end up as a nightmare in the long run. Keep dating him ans see how it goes without the sex, and if he dumps you or keeps on insisting you have sex as the relationship gets deeper, or he brings it up randomly one day, break it off imediately.
2007-07-25 23:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to see you unless you have sex with him, then he is the biggest jerk on earth, and you don't need him anyway. Keep your self respect. Don't you ever let any guy push you into having sex when you are not ready!! That is disrespectful of him, and all he is going to do is use you for sex anyway!!
2007-07-26 06:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly likes you and respects you and wants to keep you as a love interest, he will not pressure you after you say no the first time. If he walks away and doesn't look back...well, that means he saw you as a "thing". Don't compromise your values for anyone.
2007-07-26 06:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by sorri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have sex with him if you dont want to, you need to feel comfortable with it and you want him to reasure you that he will stay around.
If he leaves you coz you wouldn't have sex then he's a waste of time and you can do much better chick x
2007-07-26 06:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldent be pressurised into something you dont want to to do, this person is not very considerate when it comes to your feelings, if he was he would be happy to wait til you are ready, infact if you caved in it might be a case where you end up being used and then dumped by this person. if this person cant wait then he's not worth it. :)
2007-07-26 06:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you did not have sex with him and he hasn't called then you must know all he wanted from you was sex.
2007-07-26 06:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by MZ. Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is gona stop seeing u coz u wont have sex with him then dont bother urself, dont let him make u feel bad, coz u like urself. dont do it , u worth more that.
2007-07-26 06:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, hold on to your principles.. Once he has sex with you, he is a gonner.. So be smart
2007-07-26 06:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no be careful..he just want to have sex...and nothing else ...he do not like u but just have his lust for u
2007-07-26 06:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by simran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex with him. tell him to take it slow. if your not ready, your not ready. if he doesnt take it slow its not worth it.
2007-07-27 15:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mindy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋