Family & Relationships - 26 July 2007

I was working with a family member helping him do some stuff in his office. The problem is he has an attitude so I've decided to quit. Yet I dont want to call him and tell him that I quit because I dont want to talk to him. My mom won't call for me because she says it's not her business and I agree with her. No one will call for me and I refuse to call myself. What do I do?

2007-07-26 12:44:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this is once again for my cousin she wan't to know do you think a relationship would work out between a 15 year old guy and a 13 year old girl. and do you think it's possiable for a 15 yr old to like a 13 year old girl?

2007-07-26 12:42:38 · 50 answers · asked by Bobbie J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

someone asked me taht and i didnt know what it meant..want to explain? i think it was something perverted though but im not sure..so explain

2007-07-26 12:40:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was never married to the father i have two daughters with him he is on the birth certificates, the problem is that i've always gave him a chance to come pick them up & be in theire lives i never asked for child support...he doesn't work he has section 8 trying to fight for social security for his epilepsy & depression , he told me 4 months ago "when i grow up & deceide to be a dad i'll go see my daughters... i said sorry it doesn't work that way so i told him never to call or come by again. 4 months has passed and he's saying that he's going to take me to court,well this guy smokes weed drinks(this is the reason i left) and he used to hit me in front of my girls...now i'm in a relationship for about 2 years and i have a baby with my boyfriend he supports us (we live together) my girls say he's daddy. my question is does he have any rights to see my daughters?they don't want to go they say he doesn't spend time with them and tells them to go next door (to his moms house) or neighbor

2007-07-26 12:39:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So today my bf came over to see me . So i wore skirt..he always scream at me why u wear skirt or other dresses. he always want me to wear dresses like an old lady lol. I am just 16 why should i listen to him. He always try to fight with me and blame me for that.I wore long skirt even though there is no point to scream at me . When ever we fight he always blame me but it's really his fault. And day by day i am tired of him and his altitude.Whenever we fight he always tell me to breakup and then i get mad at him. After we fight today i called him twice and he didn't pickup his cell phone . So after 1hour he call me back and i didn't call him yet it been 2hours .
Do u think is there any problem to wear skirt ? Do boys like skirt ? or they hate skirts ?

2007-07-26 12:38:25 · 11 answers · asked by Nishi l 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I dump her or keep enjoying her sweet little body and let her use me for my money.

2007-07-26 12:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by Tony M 1 in Singles & Dating

you girls are comfusing, i still dont know what caatigory i am in, hot,cute, ugly ect. here is th pic link http://s182.photobucket.com/albums/x243/rc_master93/?action=view¤t=100_1088.jpg

2007-07-26 12:35:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she wants to know do you think a relationship could work with a girl who is 13 and a guy who is 15??
13 gonna be 14
15 gonna be 16

2007-07-26 12:32:01 · 1 answers · asked by Bobbie J 2 in Singles & Dating

Married 20 years and have a teenager who is becoming very upset at my husbands attitude towards me. He has become very abusive when drunk and calls me 'a waste of space' and a 'lazy *****'. I worked for 30 years- contributed to the mortgage and bills etc- only gave up when we moved some 6 years ago - he said to give up work. I maintain I nice house but to no avail. Whatever I do appears to be nothing compared to what he does. He he told me to leave, but could someone advise me what what would happen if I should just walk out. Obviously I would not leave without my daughter. He would be left with a 3-bed house which I purchased half of and most of the contents. How would I stand regarding ownership and where do I move to with no funds. He has me over a barrel.
I would welcome any advice from anyone who has been in the same position! I am not prepared to give up all I have worked for and earned over 20 years! I have stayed this long only because of my daughter.

2007-07-26 12:29:43 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay well i met this girl in highschool 3 years ago. well the relationship has been geting pretty serious. shes a devote catholic and so am i.well we have been making out for a long while. but no sex , we had a lot of talks and both agreed to save it till marriage, we are going to get married when were both 21 and by the way shes 18 and so am i. but when i came by her house to pick her up she wasnt ready. so i called her and she said come on in. her mom said she was upstairs so i went and knocked at her door, and she said come on in. well she was just getting dressed and was naked drying her hair. i said sorry and went back out she laughed and said come here and sit down. so i did and she said it was fine if i saw her. well she got dressed and we both laughed and went out to dinner, now a week later i was home alone and she asked if she could drop by and i said sure. well i was taking a shower when she pulled up. she snuck in to the house and jumped on me in the bathroom when i was drying off. we just stood there making out. but i was naked. alright im not a nude and neither is she. but a week ago we went to a overnight retreat and she and me slept together in different sleeping bags. but when everybody was asleep she took off her clothes and jumped in with me. she made me take off my clothes too, but she said very seriously "no sex " and we both laughed, said a prayer and fell asleep in each others arms. now i dont mean to sick you out but i just want to know did we do wrong by not being married and still enjoying the pleasures of the flesh???

2007-07-26 12:28:00 · 11 answers · asked by sam condon 1 in Singles & Dating

my new wifes husband owes back child support and is disablesd and has joint cutody of the child he is acting awkward since finding out we got married and said he wants to have the child throughout the school year with us having the child on weekends what is our best way to work this out?

2007-07-26 12:27:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

let's share =)

2007-07-26 12:26:01 · 2 answers · asked by ssoussa22 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

BIG BOOBZ OR BIG BUTT
I HAVE BOTH OF THOSE

2007-07-26 12:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by Black_Rain 2 in Singles & Dating

why is having babies outside wedlock so attracted. I know that birth control is not 100% but it seemed to work keeping them from having 3.

2007-07-26 12:20:26 · 6 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend (whom I really, really trust) are both virgins and we would like to have sex, we both think that sex is something quite intimate and special to share with someone, especially for the first time.

So, I want to tell my mom that I want to have sex (but that will be next summer), that I want her to know and that I want to be safe...would she like to know that kind of thing, how would she react, and most importantly how should I tell her?

Only serious answers please, and nothing like "you're too young" stuff...

Thank you so much in advance:)

2007-07-26 12:19:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want something kind of short and funny. Let me hear your ideas out there.

2007-07-26 12:18:54 · 6 answers · asked by Captn Jack 1 in Weddings

How in the h-e-l-l does this happen? How could this excuse possibly be believable? What do you think really happened? Ideas on prosecution?

CONCORD, Calif. -- A man was arrested Wednesday night after he mistakenly left his 11-month-old son in a hot car while he went to work in Concord. The boy was found dead more than six hours later.

Police said 46-year-old Danny Takemoto has been booked on suspicion of felony manslaughter.

Takemoto told police that he forgot to drop off the child at a day care center and instead drove to work Wednesday morning. His wife phoned him shortly before 3:30 p.m. to ask where their son was, prompting Takemoto to race out to the SUV and find the baby's lifeless body.

The temperature in Concord reached 87 degrees, but would have been much higher inside the vehicle.

Authorities said an autopsy likely will be conducted Thursday.

Under California law, leaving a child age 6 or younger alone in a vehicle is a citable offense.

2007-07-26 12:17:12 · 23 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

The closest thing to a disaster that happened on our wedding day was the heat. It was July 11, 1987...a SUPER hot day in Chicago and the place of worship where our wedding was held had a new air conditioning system. Well, turned out only a couple of people knew how to operate it and they forgot about our wedding, so we were dripping through the whole ceremony.
Then, to top it off...the reception hall was supposed to be air conditioned, but when we got there, it turned out to only have fans...our poor guests...
So...you have a disaster??

2007-07-26 12:15:16 · 12 answers · asked by Red 5 in Weddings

My husband is a Marine currently serving his third tour of duty in Iraq. My friends' boyfriend attends college in our town, but his parents live 200 miles away. He just left to visit his parents for a month before the Fall semester begins. Now my friend calls me constantly crying because she misses him. She says "people don't know what it's like to be in our boat" and "Oh I don't know if I'll ever see him again." My husband is gone months at a time in a war torn country and she thinks she's in the same boat as me. Her boyfriend is sipping margarita's on the porch while my husband is under constant threat of death. When my hubby's gone I try to keep myself busy to make the time go by faster and to not worry about him so much. With her need for constant attention, it's making the time drag by so slowly. What can I say to make her understand that I don't need this added stress?

2007-07-26 12:15:09 · 9 answers · asked by .. 5 in Friends

What are some good ideas for songs for father/daughter dances at weddings? My fiance is unsure of a song to use for her and her father. I should add that their relationships has been rocky the past 3-4 years. Please help us

2007-07-26 12:14:46 · 16 answers · asked by Steve K 2 in Weddings

My fience and I are getting married May 10, 2008 and we are looking for a honeymoon destination that is fun, not too pricy, and preferably within the United States. We are pretty laid back and up for anything... it doesn't have to be lavish or "posh" just a nice place to celebrate our marriage. Any suggestions?

2007-07-26 12:14:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anna Banana 2 in Weddings

how can i make it seem like i am not jealous of some things that my husband does. i am the kind that come strait out and say to him since u are so busy starting do u want me to get her #. i want to change that. he is a jealous person too.i don't want him to feel good about me being jealous and making me the one insecure. some tips on how u women deal with men who stare and watch porn behind ur back and god knows what else they do to u that u don't know. how did u or should u teach themm a lesson??

2007-07-26 12:08:22 · 5 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you all think about a wife not taking her husband's last name. Isn't this a modern society/country, why do women still have to bear that practice, even if she does not take her husband's name most people would still ignore her real last name.

2007-07-26 12:07:24 · 26 answers · asked by tatys 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Can I file for a divorce while I am living in Germany and my spouse is living in the states? Will i have to come back to the states to go to court? or is there a waiver for military personnel to not be required to return?

2007-07-26 12:03:03 · 3 answers · asked by greenleaf805 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been divorced for 2 years now. I have since remarried and my kids love my husband. My x only calls when it is convenient for him, and has not paid a dime in child support. My biggest worry is that his house is not a very good place for kids. It is a 3 bedroom house that is his parents, and there are a total of 8 people living there. To top it off his sister is a convicted crack head whose husband is currently in jail on drug charges. I know my x smokes pot and have heard from friends that he is now into crack. I was also told by my son that he sleeps on the couch, and his sister sleeps with grandma and grandpa when they are there. I was told that I had to have a room for each of them. Doesn't that go both ways? Oh and he hasn't had a job since the middle of 2006. He's had a girlfriend for 3 years (we've only been divorced for 2), and now he is mooching off her. What do I do????

2007-07-26 12:02:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we like boys and one of my friends that are gals has a bf, is it ok for them to kiss each other in public when it's recesses?

2007-07-26 12:01:29 · 25 answers · asked by ♪мiııiєαииє♥;♫ 1 in Singles & Dating

plz let me know

2007-07-26 12:01:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been involved in swinging since we first began seeing each other almost 3 years ago. We have been married for a year and a half. At first I was excited by this, now I have lost interest. It is much more important to my husband than to me, he gets bored very easily, and its hard for me to keep his interest. I am 39 and my sex drive has slowed tremendously, plus I am not as attractive as I once was. My husband is the only person I want to have sex with, but he wants more than me. I am willing to be involved in the lifestyle to make him happy, but he wants me to really be into it like he is. How do I make my husband happy and be true to myself at the same time?

2007-07-26 11:58:11 · 15 answers · asked by Sophie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About a month ago my mother in law came down to visit. She brought her black labrador with her. She didnt want to put her dog outside while we went out to dinner, so she left him inside. When returned to my home her dog had chewed up my couch, there was cotton, fabric and sponge stuff everywhere. my mother-in-law apologized and said she would buy me a new couch. well the couch is falling apart more and more each day since the incident. It is so embarrasing when I have guest over. But she said once I found one I liked to call her. But I feel bad about asking her because she just bought a new house. How can approach this situation?

2007-07-26 11:55:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ive just found out im pregnant...ive only been seeing my partner about 6 weeks (its definatly his as i haven't been with anyone else in a long time!) i don't know yet what i want to do and don't know weather i should tell him at all if i decide not to keep the baby what would you do?

2007-07-26 11:54:34 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating