this is once again for my cousin she wan't to know do you think a relationship would work out between a 15 year old guy and a 13 year old girl. and do you think it's possiable for a 15 yr old to like a 13 year old girl?
2007-07-26 12:42:38 · 50 answers · asked by Bobbie J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
guy=15 he is going to be 16 in a couple weeks
girl=13 will be 14 in a couple months
2007-07-26 12:43:35 · update #1
It really isn't anything serious when you are that age...it can work it is only two years..and sometimes age is just a number. It actually may be better because guys do mature slower than girls so he wil be at the same level with her. You never know until you try.
2007-07-26 12:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say if the both of them are in high school, as opposed to one being in middle school and one already being in HS, then there might be a chance that dating would work out nicely. The two of them would be in the same environment, possibly the same school and maybe even the same school activities. This is a much more compatible situation than if the two were not at the same school level. I am all for high schoolers dating, it's a healthy experience.
I am saying "dating" because, to me, the word "relationship" indicates something more serious than I think kids that age are ready for, especially the 13 yr. old, soon to be 14 yr. old. "Dating" is a more appropriate term to use. She should not be tied down to any one boy at this stage in her life. This is her chance to get used to the high school scene, prepare a plan for getting into college and to focus on having fun and not being tied down to any "relationships" at such an early age. I have a 14 yr. old daughter and I encourage her to spend her time just enjoying all the healthy new experiences that high school has in store for her rather than worrying about any one boy. Relationships require a lot of time and energy that your cousin can spend on shaping her future instead of on any one relationship that has relatively no chance of outlasting the developmental stage she is in.
I would encourage her to talk with her mom and see how her mom would feel about her pursuing an older boy. Her mom's opinion is much more important than what anyone on Yahoo Answers has to say about the situation.
2007-07-26 13:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ericka L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A difference of 2 years is not that much. But at their ages that are not ready for a serious relationship. What ever happened to kids being kids? Just being friends, enjoying each others company, going to the movies, etc. By "relationship" I hope you do not mean sex. They are both too young for that
2007-07-26 12:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Linda S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose so. i mean there might be a few things here and there but age aint noting but a number. all the guys ive been involved with lately are 16 and im 14. then again we go to the same school but go for it. if it doesnt work cant u just end the relationship. plus consider this. there about 3 years apart. does anyone notice when the ages are 23 and 26 ??
2007-07-26 12:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by jules x3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A 15 year old and a 13 year old don't really have a "relationship."
They're both underage so I don't see an issue, at least not for 3 years.
FP
2007-07-26 12:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship doesnt really mean much does it, maybe if it lasts for a couple years but chances are they will go out for a little while and then break up and drama will be part of and follow it the entire way.
2007-07-26 12:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the maturaty level of both of them. I dated a 17 yr old guy when I was 13 yr. I wasn't mature enough to understand some things but if he is more advanced in some stuff physically, tell your friend to watch herself!
2007-07-26 12:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could work out as easily as if there were no age difference at all...because they're both pretty young, that's the challenge. Lots of teen relationships don't last a long time because it's a time when lots of changes (socially, physically, mentally) are happening for both persons. I think if they WANT it to last, it can.
Best wishes and stay outta' trouble.
2007-07-26 12:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at those ages, it's best not to try. She's still a kid, and he's farther along than she is. I don't mean they CAN'T, it's just that when you're 13 and almost 16, those few years can make a really big difference.
2007-07-26 12:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anniekd 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age really matters. If they work at their relationship they should be able to make it work. (Btw-The reasoning I have this opinion is because I am 22 and my husband is 49!) And we have been together for two and half years-married. And we have a wonderful daughter. Age has nothing to do with love. You can't help who you fall in love with. All that matters is if you work at it.
2007-07-26 12:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋