okay well i met this girl in highschool 3 years ago. well the relationship has been geting pretty serious. shes a devote catholic and so am i.well we have been making out for a long while. but no sex , we had a lot of talks and both agreed to save it till marriage, we are going to get married when were both 21 and by the way shes 18 and so am i. but when i came by her house to pick her up she wasnt ready. so i called her and she said come on in. her mom said she was upstairs so i went and knocked at her door, and she said come on in. well she was just getting dressed and was naked drying her hair. i said sorry and went back out she laughed and said come here and sit down. so i did and she said it was fine if i saw her. well she got dressed and we both laughed and went out to dinner, now a week later i was home alone and she asked if she could drop by and i said sure. well i was taking a shower when she pulled up. she snuck in to the house and jumped on me in the bathroom when i was drying off. we just stood there making out. but i was naked. alright im not a nude and neither is she. but a week ago we went to a overnight retreat and she and me slept together in different sleeping bags. but when everybody was asleep she took off her clothes and jumped in with me. she made me take off my clothes too, but she said very seriously "no sex " and we both laughed, said a prayer and fell asleep in each others arms. now i dont mean to sick you out but i just want to know did we do wrong by not being married and still enjoying the pleasures of the flesh???
2007-07-26 12:28:00 · 11 answers · asked by sam condon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump her @$$ shes desperate for sex
2007-07-26 12:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honestly, if u continue this little nude fest of urs, you guys are going to "accidently" have sex and not stop it. Just if u want to be celibate until marriage than just make out with clothes on. it is safer and there is no risk of sex actually happening. Is what your doing wrong? ummm slightly but not really.
2007-07-26 19:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, I'm going to have to say no you did nothing wrong. and thats amazing. it takes some real self control to be naked next to the one you love and still control the urge to have sex. I'm sure God was pretty impressed.
2007-07-26 19:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Peace and Love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you both are serious about waiting until marriage then you need to stop this behavior as it WILL lead to full sex! Play with fire and you will get burned....
2007-07-26 19:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you are a devote catholic what have you been taught? All I can say is you two wont make it till your 21
2007-07-26 19:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by oneberryp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think anything is wrong, when you r older get used to sleeping in the same room.
and a very early congrats on the wedding that didnt happen yet lol :]
2007-07-26 19:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,
why would you think so..
at least you both are proving you are in love wiht each other,
and know that when the time comes,
you are both serious about each other,
it's just touching, naturally,
no penetration...
no exchange of bodily fluids..
so...
no sins..
2007-07-26 19:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by mxnakano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong...Im impressed and god must be too. being naked with the one you love without having sex is VERY difficult...
2007-07-26 19:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you guys are fine theres nothing wrong with hugging
good luck when your married
2007-07-26 19:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think its wrong. as long as its just making out and not oral or anal sex.
2007-07-26 19:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by AnswerFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, anytime anyone lusts after another it is considered adultery..for i/e any pornography, or any comments like "dude, shes hott", goes for that too...dont put yourself in the postion to be pressured...or tempted..if you feel that you shouldnt be doing it..it means its wrong..
2007-07-26 19:32:29 · answer #11 · answered by becky b 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋