how can i make it seem like i am not jealous of some things that my husband does. i am the kind that come strait out and say to him since u are so busy starting do u want me to get her #. i want to change that. he is a jealous person too.i don't want him to feel good about me being jealous and making me the one insecure. some tips on how u women deal with men who stare and watch porn behind ur back and god knows what else they do to u that u don't know. how did u or should u teach themm a lesson??
2007-07-26 12:08:22 · 5 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My hubby watches porn. I dont care. It doesn't make me jealous because I look at it to. No big deal. He can be completely comfortable around me. That's what makes a relationship work. Dont be jealous of whores that are hot. It's not like he will ever even meet the girls. You dont need to teach him a lesson, just start doing the stuff he does to you, right back. See if he likes it.
2007-07-26 12:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by cowboy_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hollar out why don't you just go over there and lick her butt hole bitchboy!!!
jk...My men don't do it behind my back, I join them in porn. As for staring that's just creepy, if they're staring, they aren't attracting the other girl, they're creeping her out. But none the less, I tell them that when we're in public and in the middle of the conversation, when they stop to look at another woman its rude to me...so please refrain. But when we're just out and I catch them looking I just smile. Its natural, you mean to tell me you girls don't glance at good looking guys? Come on, what do you do, stare at the floor all the time? Just let it go, or make a nice casual comment like she's pretty isn't she, I like her outfit or hairstyle or whatever. If you'd like; it'd be okay to ask them if they think you'd look good with that type of hairstyle or in an outfit like that...it brings their attention back to you.
2007-07-26 12:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't deal with it. This is your problem - that you do deal with it. You are basically allowing him to do this. Why would I want my man to look at porn? He's got me, and I'm real. Sure, he's gonna look at other women out somewhere, but he doesn't make it obvious. I look at everyone. There's nothing wrong with looking-it's only human. It's when we start thinking and dwelling on those bad thoughts of being with them. Noone can tell me that they don't look nomatter who they are.
2007-07-26 12:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ericka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a monthly cycle. What pissed my wife off one week of the month never bothered her the other 3 weeks. Good Luck
2007-07-26 12:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol. For me, i try to keep it even in my relationship. I tell him that he can't do anything he wouldn't want ME doing and he automatically stops cuz he knows what's coming and it won't be pretty :)
2007-07-26 12:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋