I'm good friends with this girl and we haven't officially dated or can be called "girlfriend/boyfriend", but the friendship came to a point where she had asked to step up a level. After awhile things became silent and I became a bit worried. She replies she's been frustrated and needed a little alone time and that she's very sorry to not be able to be there for me or spend time with me also to make me wonder and waiting. She told me to not give her time or wait for her and that I deserve much more. She kept apologizing too... The first thought I had in mind was is she trying to tell me to back off now? I'm not sure if I should try to continue to make this relationship work or if I should just let things be, as friends. I really do love her even if we haven't hung out in awhile, I just want to make things work. I guess this is sort of like a simulated long-distance relationship? Please I need advice T_T
2007-07-26 14:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by Mathias 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
should I tell her one last time that I love her sincerely? Or is it better to end in silence?
2007-07-26 16:46:39 · update #1
awww im sorry...i would say let your friendship be and try to find someone else...she doesnt sound ready for a realationship with you.....im so sorry...
2007-07-26 14:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is her way of breaking up with you. i would suggest sending her a e-mail and telling her to take all the time she needs and that you love her you never know maybe later on she will contact you at least you have left her nicely and maybe she is just going thru something. good luck!
2007-07-27 02:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say just let it be. you don't know what's going on and she's not willing to tell you. friendships and relationships should be open and honest. good luck.
2007-08-01 18:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she did something with another guy (..or girl.. if she swings like that) and now feels bad about it hence the sorrying.
2007-08-03 21:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not interested in a relationship of more than friendship
2007-07-30 21:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude give her the space she needs and maybe seeing other ppl will do you and her good.maybe even draw u and her closer together.
2007-07-26 21:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sry sweetie but thats break up for u. im sry and i wish you good luck on ur next gf! sry!!!!
2007-07-26 21:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋