I realy like this lad that i know and i mean realy fancey him to bits.
But i dont know if he likes me.
I dont wanna ask him and turn out he dont.
I dont want to tell him cause im shy.
What do i do?
2007-07-26 23:34:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't ask him you'll regret it for the rest of your life...
2007-07-26 23:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by ele 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy why don't you use other means of getting in touch. Does he have email, perhaps text him. By doing things this way not only are you letting him know how you feel but also you are doing this without having to face him. Rejection is always going to hurt whether face to face or through some other means this is never easy to deal with but be strong if this happens and remember there are always going to be other people in your life.
2007-07-27 00:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there first of all find out a few things about him,what he likes,what he does in his spare time..then see if you both have some things in common.Start a few conversations and drop in a few hints,tell him when you're free days are,what you like doing e.t.c.Me and my current boyfriend were friends for 18 months before we got together.Maybe arrange a party and invite him or something? Email me if you need to! Emma x
2007-07-27 01:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He who dares, wins!
Its an old saying and apart from the he bit should be a she, very apt. Honestly, you will never know unless you try, and the chances are that he will be impressed by your honesty and courage. At the end of the day what have you got to lose? i say go for it, if he says no then at least you know and can move on. Good luck. x
2007-07-26 23:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, if this guy is shy about talking with you then it's going to be a long road. So my advice is speak up because the longer you wait the greater the chance some other lady will be stealing you man.
2007-07-26 23:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by MONK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will like you more if you're more confident but not cocky and let him know you like him by showing an interest in what hes passionate about, maybe a few compliments, maybe suggest you hang out or something. See how it goes. Never feel like you're not good enough for him. If he doesnt want to know then hes not the guy you thought you fancied.
2007-07-26 23:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a choice you could make friends with him first that way youll get to know if hes seeing anyone and when he says hes single you go for the kill, you say youre shy remember some men like that quality in a woman i used to be shy like you but i built up confidence by approaching people first and making conversation thats the only way sometimes good luck
2007-07-26 23:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by laricia1232000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry lady, if you're not prepared to take a risk then you're stuffed!
He wont know you like him unless you give him some help. You will never know if he likes you unless you talk to him.
So, roll up your sleeves, slap on your best after shave and go for it!
2007-07-27 12:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by Fanshawe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But if you don't ask him then you won't ever find out. If you really like him, then take a risk to know :)
Good luck!
2007-07-26 23:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by earthangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...if you have any friends that also know him...find out that way....but the direct way...might be not easy...but then you would know...
...find a good time....to talk with him...ask him out or something like that....or give him your phone number or email...ask him to email you sometime...you know without pressure...and if he does do something...it is a start....
2007-07-26 23:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not bad to like someone but d question is what draws ur attention towards him, is it his handsomeness or inteligence, if so you could just walk up to him and ask him, whats ur name, i'm so, so and so, i'll like to be ur friend, its a pleasure meeting u. and by that a frendship has started.
2007-07-26 23:43:35 · answer #11 · answered by glory o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋