Family & Relationships - 26 July 2007

Ok let's see I got a state job, I got honor rolls from school, I been having a good time with my friends and just saw a movie tonight but I been lonely for like 9 months now without a girlfriend. First off I was happy to be single for awhile and yes I know I been saving money but I kind of wish I could actually find someone that I like and someone that liked me. Maybe it's for the better... I guess what I'm trying to ask is should I just wait for the girl to come to me? Or should I try and maybe go after the girl but not look desperate?

PS- I'm not desperate at all because first off I won't go for a lot of girls. I can be picky but not to the extreme so what's the better option here?

2007-07-26 19:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one that you don't know...

2007-07-26 19:47:28 · 12 answers · asked by dosahyd f 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 19:45:07 · 31 answers · asked by trizzy1 1 in Friends

well i have this new professor in college.. n i really respect him as my professor.. but there is some kind of misunderstanding.. some of my frnz were just fooling around when he overheard them.. now he thinks i m a total flirt who just wants a live in relationship..n this has changed my image in front of him.. he doesnt even smile with me anymore!! even in lectures he behaves like i dont even exist..previously i used to be one of his favourites but now its just the opposite..i really respect him n m not what he thinks i m!! i mean m not a person who just looks out for guys to live in with!! how do i change my image in front of him??! he is a nice professor n i dont want him to have worng notions about me!plzzz help me out

2007-07-26 19:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can I drown in a pool of marshymellows? They make me happy! and i was playing chubby bunny one day and I had a GREAT AHHMAZING idea of getting a pool and filling it with marshymellows. then my great great great grandfather told me that i should be careful because i could drown...IS IT TRUEE!?!?!
Would the marshymellows....MY MARSHYMELLOWS...really betray me like that!?!?!?
PLEASE
I NEED TO KNOW!!!
I just dont understand how they could! THEY ARE SO LOVELY AND DELICIOUS AND FLUFFY!!!..i cant see them doing anything to hurt me...
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2007-07-26 19:43:50 · 20 answers · asked by Becky♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my friend called the guy i like and told him about how i feel! and when we said that, he just said "ok" !!! so what do i do now!!

2007-07-26 19:42:07 · 14 answers · asked by lexii [[is cool beans]] 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been in a 7 year relationship. we've recently broke up. this past week, he has been calling me 2-3 times a day, leaving me msgs like "im in trouble, pick up".. but, he is seeing another already. i cant and dont want to speak to him because it still hurts... plus, why talk if he has "moved on"? so, a few days ago, i changed my cell phone number. but i feel sorta sad. what can i do to feel better. im not ready to speak to him or any of his friends. why do i feel this way?

2007-07-26 19:40:27 · 8 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean cuz i didnt think it was right that she was 14 an didnt know what periods an sex was! her mom would always make a note so she couldnt watch the sex ed vieos in school an sex ed talks and she came up an asked what sex was i surprised she didnt know an then when i started my period i told her an she said she didnt know what that was either! an now her mom thinks im a bad influence that i told her! an now she wont let me talk to her. she even made it so we wouldnt go to the same highschool we barely talk now.
why does her mom think im such bad influence i think its better for her to know now than finding by having sex an gettin pregnant
we wont to be able to talk to each other again but we dont know what to??
help please?

2007-07-26 19:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Friends

990 or 2,500 dollars for a great personal assistant?

and you were rich for that matter...

2007-07-26 19:38:06 · 7 answers · asked by IamherewhenIhavenothingtodo 2 in Singles & Dating

on guys?
ugh.
he tells me he loves me.
that night he goes out to play a gig and ends up hooking up with another girl.
and taking pictures i might add.
yes im broken up.
but mad.

2007-07-26 19:37:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have ex who I am still good friends with and we were perfect with each other. The only problem was that his family was manipulative and shallow and turned him against me. He now realizes this and maybe would like to purse something with me.

The guy I am dating right now is cool, his family likes me. He is more liberal than me. He wants to take it to the next level, but I am still not sure if he is the one.

I am not sure if I should continue dating the new guy or go back to the old one.

2007-07-26 19:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by healingarden 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont have a boyfriend and i really dont want one. but i have sex with my five friends. they are all single and they all know that i have sex with each of them. i dont feel guilty about having sex with all of them. basically what i do is, i call them and he will come over and then they will immediatly start to take my clothes off. then that same night a different guy will come over and i will have sex with him. is it wrong to have sex with all of my friends? and sometimes i will just have sex with random strangers. should i just keep living my life and enjoy having sex with every guy i see? or should i just keep one guy?

2007-07-26 19:32:11 · 24 answers · asked by joejonasgurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I would be leaving a very sick mother with not much time left, plus up rooting my kids. Then the ex-husband that would fight for his child not to leave the state.

2007-07-26 19:25:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

info. read after story!!! or before!!!!
ages+
mom=52
me=14
+didn't move to my new house yet because of my dad.
dad still didn't finsh the house and it's been 5 years!!!!! =(
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my mom and i were at my new house looking at my yard of 8 acres and she looked back at me and said you are the luckest childed i had i said i am.lol. p.s.i really didn't know what she was talking about. until she said this. "when i look outside at the 8 acresi see pain, when i look at the halls i see pain, life isn't fair."
i cried.
-she means she's to old and is out of shape and can't do what i can.
i thought she meant out of my brothers and sister. because my sister is leaving for collage and brothers moved out so i'm living the life. not....

******question is that what do i say or do to make me and my mom happy???=( my mom makes me sad.....=(

-good answer then i will vote for you as best answerd=)

2007-07-26 19:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Friends

2007-07-26 19:23:24 · 17 answers · asked by Krissy 2 in Family

O.K my boyfriend and I have been together almost 8 years. We have 2 children together. I am 31 and he is 36. I love him dearly but I am at the point where he needs to decide if he is in this for the long haul. If not... let me know. Do you think 8 years and 2 children later is enough time to decide if I am worth marrying? Is it selfish of me to make him decide? I feel stupid coming on here and venting but, I hate to bring our family/friends into our relationship. It will be nice to get outside opinions. The thing is... we are not even engaged so, when I introduce him... I have to say my boyfriend!

2007-07-26 19:18:47 · 30 answers · asked by muay_thai_cutie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl who I definately like as a friend or girlfriend, I am sure that she thinks that I'm atleast OK, that's all been established... Since school is over now, the only place I see her is at my work, which is a luxury grocery store, she comes in on occasion, she usually buys health items (bottled water, special k, icy hot) she's an athletic person, and so am I, and this is all on the off chance that I happen to be there when she is there!.... All of my friends who are girls don't really know her, or they did once but they don't really anymore How can I see her more often so I could even have the chance to ask her to hang out or go do something?!! OR How can I make those few moments in which I do see her more meaningful and productive if you will to asking her to go do something..?!!
I don't want to stalk her to her house or anything, but how can I make it so we could possibly come in contact somehow?!

2007-07-26 19:17:19 · 8 answers · asked by ginsberg68 2 in Singles & Dating

Does that mean anything?
If he enters the room...he's saying my name.
If he walks up to the group...he's saying my name.
If he leave the room, I get the goodbyes.
He can't walk past me without saying my name or a name he makes up off my name.
And if we are going to be apart for a long time...like a vacation or long holiday...I get a hug maybe two hugs.

Is that guy friend behavior or is he telling me something?!?!

2007-07-26 19:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you know that it is love already.
what do you feel, is it something like having crush or more deeper than that?

2007-07-26 19:17:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Explain to me what your point of view on "friends with benefits" thing is and how it works and what you think of it. I've been hearing all this commotion about this

2007-07-26 19:15:50 · 8 answers · asked by bite the dust 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that I made at work. I am a man and my friend is a woman. She no longer works for the company, but we used to talk to each other a lot outside of work like on the phone and online. We weren't going out with each other. We were just friends. She used to call me up at home just to say hi. A couple of months ago, she stopped calling me and only talked to me at work. Then left the company and we really don't talk to each other anymore and I haven't seen her for a while. I do miss her. Interestingly, she pretty much stopped calling me and messaging me online when she got herself a boyfriend. Hmmm? What do you make of that?

2007-07-26 19:12:58 · 15 answers · asked by iridealone 2 in Friends

Suppose you've been dating a girl for quite some time and decided to go on a date night together. Let's say in the end you both come up with different plans for the evening. Your idea for a date includes going to a show that is completely uninteresting to the girl and her idea for the date is completely uninteresting to you (ex. ballet, opera, really boring lecture, etc...). Suppose you get into an argument over what you want to do and the girl decides to give you the silent treatment and cut you off from "intimacy" until you do her bidding. What would you do in this situation? Would you cave in like a whipped boy and abide by your gf's wishes or would you stand up to her? Suppose compromise was not a possibility either. What would you do?

2007-07-26 19:12:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 19:12:33 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If the parties both divorce their current spouses does it make ok. Plus one of them benefits job wise because of the illecit affair. They also used company funding and meetings to date. Is the company right in allowing them to change positions so they can continue the affair. Would you want to work for this type of company.

2007-07-26 19:11:05 · 19 answers · asked by philly_delphian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a virgin? Will most guys try to take advantage of that or respect it? Will they mind waiting? What are your thoughts on this?

2007-07-26 19:01:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok at all times i feel like I am in love. But I am still waiting to meet the person that I am in love with. I have had this deep deep feeling for as long as I can remember. Is this normal? I mean i feel like he ( my soul mate) is out there feeling the same way and wanting to meet me just as bad.

2007-07-26 18:57:07 · 12 answers · asked by ~♥~lover~♥~ 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my boyfriend for a long time now. im 15 [almost 16] and he just turned 18 days ago. lately, we've been talking about marriage, not that i plan on getting married any time soon, but it just came up a few times. we are both virgins and i really have been thinking the last few days, and i want to wait until marriage to have sex, not for religious beliefs, but just because i want to make sure i give the "gift" of virginity to the right person & to the person i love the most.

what do you all think?

& i know i can wait.

ALSO, do you think 20-22 is a good age to marry?

2007-07-26 18:56:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just because me an my friends will change in the same room or that when i have friends spending the night we sleep in the same bed and me an most of my friends usually sleep in short shorts an a tang top or under wear an a tang top or even just in are bra an panties
she gets mad and says that she doesnt want her daughter to hang around a bunch of carpet munchers or have her daughter be one! i get so mad and tell her its not like we make out! an sometimes she calls me an my friends the carpet muncher possy it annoys me so f'in bad!
how can i get her to realize that were not lezbos an its no big deal that we change in the same room or sleep in the same bed?

2007-07-26 18:54:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm making a slideshow of everyone in our family, my family recently went through a very hard time and ever since then we havent been much of a family lately and i'm hoping my family slideshow will help my mother, siblings, and friends how strong our love and family use to be. Are there any touching songs that would fit my slideshow that you have in mind?

2007-07-26 18:52:22 · 9 answers · asked by nikkilanger 1 in Family

I don't see anything wrong with it but she says that it is like cheating on her. I don't ask her to watch it and I don't watch it around her. Also, she is a stripper!! I ask her how she could feel this way because her job is a by product of porn...she is a version of porn. She says it is not the same because she doen't enjoy it. Damn right its not the same!! I am not showing my goodies to other women and letting them go home and get off on it!!! Am I wrong for looking at porn on my computer from time to time?

2007-07-26 18:47:22 · 62 answers · asked by thatnikkafosho 1 in Marriage & Divorce