There is a girl who I definately like as a friend or girlfriend, I am sure that she thinks that I'm atleast OK, that's all been established... Since school is over now, the only place I see her is at my work, which is a luxury grocery store, she comes in on occasion, she usually buys health items (bottled water, special k, icy hot) she's an athletic person, and so am I, and this is all on the off chance that I happen to be there when she is there!.... All of my friends who are girls don't really know her, or they did once but they don't really anymore How can I see her more often so I could even have the chance to ask her to hang out or go do something?!! OR How can I make those few moments in which I do see her more meaningful and productive if you will to asking her to go do something..?!!
I don't want to stalk her to her house or anything, but how can I make it so we could possibly come in contact somehow?!
2007-07-26 19:17:19 · 8 answers · asked by ginsberg68 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh man this is great. OK pay attention grab your self a note pad and pencil drop everything that you are doing right now cause i got the perfect plot! wait,,, i lost my train of thought sorry dude. dammit i hate it when i do that...............oh yea i remember. ready? grow up dude walk up to her and tell her exactly how you feel and you would like to get together for lunch not dinner lunch that way is not a date date if you get shot down is just lunch if she says no then tell well then how about dinner. and make her laugh always make them laugh.now if you do not want to go that rout try the following ask her where she works out and see if she would like to work out with you as friends if she accepts you are in like flint bro.after that invite her for a healthy drink juice what ever you health freaks do. but remember break the ice by making her laugh. good luck homie.
2007-07-26 19:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by cookiemonsta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalking is definitely a bad idea. When she comes in next, see if you can strike up a mini conversation. Maybe tell her about a great deal on Power Bars or something like that. See if you can find out what gym she goes to. Tell her that you've been looking into joining one and want to find someplace good. Chances are, she probably belongs to one. Even if she doesn't, the ice will be broken and you'll have the door open to future conversations.
2007-07-27 02:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she comes in, strike-up a friendly conversation while you ring her purchases up.
If you have a product you use that you think she might like to try... and the store carries it...you can suggest it ("Have you tried So-and-So? I use it and it seems to [help with my daily run].") in a firendly manner.
If she tries (the product), you can ask her what she thought of it.
After a few weeks (or more) of this friendly chat, ask her if she might like to buddy-up for running sometime later in the week. If she agrees to that (and it - and a repeat or three of the "running date" - goes well), try to see if she might be interested in making it a regular occurrence. Then, after a run, invite her for "coffee" (or equivalent) at the local shop. Chat her up some more. From there, I think you pretty much know what to do...just don't push things too fast, but if she speeds-up the process, by all means, motor on.
2007-07-27 06:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know where she lives or know some others that might know, send her some roses with an attached note with your name and phone# that also says something like "I don't ever get a chance to see you much. We have a lot in common and I think you are (beautiful, wonderful, intriguing, etc). How about going out with me for (dinner, coffee, a party, etc.)? Call me." If I had ever gotten something like that I'd have been a basket case of swooning for days. (P.S. My husband of 14 years did do something very similar!) Good Luck.
2007-07-27 02:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Carol C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to at least talk to her. Just go up to her and start a conversation. It could be something simple like is there anything I can help you with and start from there. If she is feeling you it will show
2007-07-27 02:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dat Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always bump into each other. Start a talk wherein you know she likes to discuss. God! you got a lot of time and you always see her. Why don't you ask her out? But do it politely, girls like to be ask nicely. don't be sissy!Atta Boy!!!
2007-07-27 02:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see her next time, ask for her number. When you get to know each other, ask her out.
2007-07-27 02:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask her her number when she comes around ur work place good luck
2007-07-27 02:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋