I have ex who I am still good friends with and we were perfect with each other. The only problem was that his family was manipulative and shallow and turned him against me. He now realizes this and maybe would like to purse something with me.
The guy I am dating right now is cool, his family likes me. He is more liberal than me. He wants to take it to the next level, but I am still not sure if he is the one.
I am not sure if I should continue dating the new guy or go back to the old one.
2007-07-26 19:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by healingarden 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stick with the one you have. you will always be an outcast with the family of your ex, which will cause problems for both of you on down the road. don't force him to have to choose between his family and you.
2007-07-26 19:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by TLC 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tough situation being affraid to go back to "perfect" knowing there may be those who are waiting to interfere and create drama....and with mister "safe" wanting to make things a little more permanent!
Enough credit is not given as to how much pressure and stress meddling family members can cause a perfectly good relationship...not to mention destroy!
Its obvious that you still are very fond of your ex and miss him much. Your relationship with your current boy friend has probably run its course regardless of what you do. Taking things to the next level brings serious doubts in your mind. But it is very important that you are not using your ex just to get away from your current guy! If it was really "perfect" with your ex then communication is the key here! Make sure before you make any decisions that he is strong enough to stand up to his family and defend his choice in you. His family will not show you respect until he shows them that you are worth it...and you come first!
Life!.....its cruel sometimes. Love comes back...and you have to hurt someone else! Believe me I do so understand where you are...good luck!
2007-07-26 19:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by CSnumber1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are free to make up your own mind--always do what is right for you. there is no answer--might as well flip a coin--you aren't sure about either guy--is there a rush about this? You had a problem with one--can you two get past that?? if it is not healthy--get out--the other may find another girl--then what?? no one will wait for you--that's life--no one knows what the future will be or how things will turn out. Good luck
2007-07-26 19:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really shouldn't matter what your ex's family thinks about you, and it's obvious that he finally realized that.
As for the other guy, if you're not sure he's the one and you're almost positive your ex is...go back to your ex.
So long as he really does understand that his family can't get in between the both of you.
I wish you the best of luck :)!
2007-07-26 19:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fickled again? try going with the one that makes you feel warmer inside your heart, but by all means don't hurt the ones you do not prefer. Be nice and always stick with one card per game.
2007-07-26 19:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the one you have. The first one thinks there might be a possibility with you, but that won't change the behavior of his family.
2007-07-26 19:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your heart...
when he's calling for you.
Listen to your heart...
theres nothing else you can do.
I dont know where youre going
and I don't know why...
But listen to your heart...
Before you tell him goodbye!
Hahahahaha!
Im sorry im just really bored!
And your question seemed to be the right one to
put these lyrics to.
2007-07-26 19:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go wit who makes you happy im a guy so i aint sure
2007-07-26 19:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by deandre2p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋