i dont have a boyfriend and i really dont want one. but i have sex with my five friends. they are all single and they all know that i have sex with each of them. i dont feel guilty about having sex with all of them. basically what i do is, i call them and he will come over and then they will immediatly start to take my clothes off. then that same night a different guy will come over and i will have sex with him. is it wrong to have sex with all of my friends? and sometimes i will just have sex with random strangers. should i just keep living my life and enjoy having sex with every guy i see? or should i just keep one guy?
2007-07-26 19:32:11 · 24 answers · asked by joejonasgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you have a serious problem. And not solely because of your actions, but rather because you have to ask if they are ok. You are putting yourself at great risk physically and emotionally...I think you should take a break, and perhaps see a therapist.
2007-07-26 19:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Star 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Im not a doctor so i cant be sure. But if i had to make a guess it sounds like a chemical embalance. Something is not right with you either pyshical or mental. Hopefully its something that can be fixed by talking about it or with a simple pill or change in diet or lifestyle. I do know that i went through a strech of about 8 months where i had very little or no sex drive. With out going to the doctor i was able to fix it. With me it was a combination of things, i didnt like the way i looked, so i started to exercise and lost 48 pounds. That cured almost all of it. Then i just forced myself to make my self more avaliable. Hope this helps.
2016-05-20 03:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, they are friends with benefits. There are times in our lives that we don't need another person to feel complete. Just be safe, make sure you use condoms, so you don't get an STD. As long as you are happy, that's all that matters. Good Luck. Live Life to the Fullest and Enjoy Every minute of It.....
2007-07-26 19:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hardly know where to begin with this. Are you crazy?? Surely you have heard of HIV/AIDS? STD'S? TRICH? CLAYMEDIA? These are all sexually transmitted diseases. If you have not heard, you have had your head stuck in the ground. Surely you know that having sex with five different men has its own set of names for you. I am sure they are having the time of their lives while you are making a complete fool of yourself. Surely you know that no man is going to respect a woman that allows this to happen. And by the way - these are not your friends. They are guys who are using your body. Think about it - if you are having sex with the five of them and each one of them has sex with one other person - that's ten people you are sexing and possibly more.
STOP! NOW!
Your body is God's temple. If I were you, I'd run to the doctor for a check up and to make sure there is nothing wrong and then I would stop having sex -period. You don't need a boyfriend and you don't need these 5 guys. Oh my God.
2007-07-26 19:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to like yourself better so you won't be so very nasty! Get a grip honey you are so used up. If all the guys know that you are also screwing the others none of them care for you anyhow. You should begin to care about you right now.
Where are your parents?
2007-07-26 19:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by TamiAmi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Somehow I can imagine you in the future, you'll become one of those girl on the street. Selling your body for money...
You are hurting yourself by having sex with just anyone... Doesnt matter its your friends... THEY ALL DO THINK you're a SL*T. You need to stop that.
Trust me... you just hurting yourself.
2007-07-26 19:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Glenn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am wondering how much longer you have to live......... sleeping around like you do. You might as well be selling it. I don't know if you are a real person or not....... you're gonna come up missing one of these nights and become a crime victim of some criminal.
2007-07-26 19:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what if you get pregnant...how will you know who the father is...or if you get an std, you wont have enough time to catch it before you give it to someone else...and what about your reputation?? what do you think these guys say to eachother behind your back?? you might not care right now, but what if you get really serious with someone else, and they happen to know one or all of these guys??? youre setting yourself up to really hurt yourself
2007-07-26 19:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u need a therpist i think someone in ur past did not give u love and u seek that in random ppl...just ppl like u are called u thing in real world...hoes...don't want to be mean but that is true...u are heartless and overshadowed with ur self...u need to get help before u get a STD..or get a mental breakdown...
2007-07-26 19:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i love girls like you. you make life a joy to live. 9/10 attractive girls (assuming you are attractive) are increasingly hard to get, so when that one comes along that loves sex, its a great change. keep doing what u are doing! the only worry i have is of possible STD's from all ur activity.
2007-07-26 19:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋