i mean cuz i didnt think it was right that she was 14 an didnt know what periods an sex was! her mom would always make a note so she couldnt watch the sex ed vieos in school an sex ed talks and she came up an asked what sex was i surprised she didnt know an then when i started my period i told her an she said she didnt know what that was either! an now her mom thinks im a bad influence that i told her! an now she wont let me talk to her. she even made it so we wouldnt go to the same highschool we barely talk now.
why does her mom think im such bad influence i think its better for her to know now than finding by having sex an gettin pregnant
we wont to be able to talk to each other again but we dont know what to??
help please?
2007-07-26 19:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your friends mom is a freak.
I'm very sorry, can you keep in touch by email?
2007-07-26 19:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably thought you were doing your friend a good deed. By the age of 14 she definitely should have had some idea about her physical body and the transformations that will take place. The sad part is that her own mother did not take the time to talk with her - but from the mom's point of view - you took the control from her hands by telling her daughter. Her attacking you is only a reflection of her own bad choice not to have told her daughter herself.
Don't worry about it. If it is meant for you all to get back together as friends - you will. Just be careful next time. Your good deed was just misunderstood. That's all.
2007-07-26 19:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u did the right thing. im sorry she wont let u see her, that's messed up. her daughter had the right to know, and she's old enough to know. she thinks that less knowledge of sex protects her daughter but it doesnt and it makes her daughter feel confused about life. u did the right thing. i mean imagine when she would first get her period she would probably think she has a disease or is bleeding to death.
2007-07-26 19:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What her mother is doing could be considered abuse. People need to know these things as they go through puberty, and forcefully blocking that knowledge from a child can do irreparable emotional harm. Tell a school counselor.
2007-07-26 19:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Xander Crews 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 09:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think her mom is over reacting i mean just for telling her what sex means i know what sex means when i was 10 and i had my period when i was in the 4 th grade but maybe her mom is just protecting her
2007-07-26 19:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by dharkangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mom probably just want to tell her that stuff. She's 14. She should be havin sex anyway
2007-07-26 19:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry mimi, I have no advice, except to say there are a lot of really stupid adults out there, really really stupid. Your friend's mom is one of the worst.
2007-07-26 19:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have no advice other than to say that
the ppl that don't know about it are usually the ppl that end up getting pregnant and stuff.
man that makes me mad!
2007-07-26 19:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋