info. read after story!!! or before!!!!
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mom=52
me=14
+didn't move to my new house yet because of my dad.
dad still didn't finsh the house and it's been 5 years!!!!! =(
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my mom and i were at my new house looking at my yard of 8 acres and she looked back at me and said you are the luckest childed i had i said i am.lol. p.s.i really didn't know what she was talking about. until she said this. "when i look outside at the 8 acresi see pain, when i look at the halls i see pain, life isn't fair."
i cried.
-she means she's to old and is out of shape and can't do what i can.
i thought she meant out of my brothers and sister. because my sister is leaving for collage and brothers moved out so i'm living the life. not....
******question is that what do i say or do to make me and my mom happy???=( my mom makes me sad.....=(
-good answer then i will vote for you as best answerd=)
2007-07-26 19:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I will have to be honest with you. If you go back and "read" what you wrote - it is very confusing. But I will try to write what I can to help you. It sounds as if your father was supposed to complete a house he has been working on for 5 years and your brother and sister are both leaving the home. It appears you and your mom are left together. Is she unhappy that your dad has not finished the new house. If this is what your story is about - listen - no house can ever make up for having living parents. So, if it isn't finished -unless you are in the street - don't worry about it. You and your mom now have the best opportunity to share your teen years and you can really get to know her. Why don't the two of you make plans to do things together. Here's a suggestion - make a scrap book of your life and your family's life. Take your mom shopping and both of you buy something alike. Take in a movie and do something crazy together. Your mom is probably feeling sad because her other children are gone and looking at you at the age of 14 means that it won't be too long before you, too are gone.
It's call "empty nest sydrome'. Cherish your mom sweetheart and help her get over the feeling that she can't do anything. becuase she can. She can get her hair done, makeup, nails and pedicure. The two of you can plan something together at least once a week. Then write your dad a nice letter. Let him know that you really would like to have the new house. Maybe there is a reason he has not completed it in 5 years. (finances? health? additional projects?)
Whatever the situation - you and your mom can find a number of things you can do together that will bring you both confidence and happiness.
2007-07-26 19:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to say...but I do know what is going on...you're mom feels old.
She wants to feel young again...just like her children. She may even be a little jealous.
Just for right now be supportive. Let her know how much she means to you and everyone else. Have some fun with her. You know buddies.
Also, her eldest is leaving...she is bound to be very sad. The first child off to college is a very hardtime.
Plus females cry...you know that's true. ;-) Mommies cry too. Try a hug. ;-D
2007-07-27 02:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by imaprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... Maybe you should convince her to go to a day spa :) or go on a vacation. She will feel a lot better, maybe she needs some time to relax n relieve some stress.
2007-07-27 02:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by Itoshii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a heart to heart with the momma.......
Life will get better ....
Change can be unwanted, it can be unneeded, but change will open new doors, new roads, new things to see & do, New people to meet. Your not loosing the old. your adding to it.
Always do your best ... be happy with who your are.
2007-07-27 02:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats same as me the ages my mother is 52 and im 14.
lol well try to comfort your mother maybe make her pround and such
2007-07-27 02:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope this helps.. are there any games or anything you and your mom like. if so pull it out and play. or take her out to eat. or ask her if there is anything bothering her. if so have her tell you.. if something is Wong. tell her that because she is sad you are sad. "off sub.. you remind me of me and my grand mother... so please give this a try.." well i hope this works for you and your mom.. i hope you and her feel happy again
2007-07-27 02:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by tippie dog. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Highlight what old people can do, 52 isn't very very old
2007-07-27 02:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Judge me by my music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe the word you're looking for is DEAD. not DIED.
2007-07-27 02:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wish I understood your question.
Please add details to make it more clear.
2007-07-27 02:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋