me and my friend called the guy i like and told him about how i feel! and when we said that, he just said "ok" !!! so what do i do now!!
2007-07-26 19:42:07 · 14 answers · asked by lexii [[is cool beans]] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably thought you didnt mean it
2007-07-26 19:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Misael V 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Did you have any advance indication that he was interested in you romantically. If not, then why did you do it and what were your expectations.
Put yourself in his shoes, a guy calls you and tells you he likes you, what do you say to him?
Do you decide to pursue him or just ignore and forget it?
What you did was very immature and childish. If someone I knew did that to me, I would be inclined to avoid them if I didn't feel the same. It would create a very awkward situation for me.
Face it, you probably blew it by doing what you did. You have no right to expect him to respond in any way other than the way he did. Learn from it and move on
2007-07-27 03:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Back Porch Willy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue on with the relationship as it was. It may be hard but keep it friend like!@
He just may not have been able to tell you how he felt at that moment but if he feels the same as you do he'll start showing it more and more now that he knows that you feel the same as he!
2007-07-27 02:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by HARMONYâ?«~â?«~â?«~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously....if a woman had to have her friend on the phone to tell me how she felt...I'd say "Ok" too in a dazed and confused way. I'd think, wow, it might have been cool she liked me but I now see how insecure she is so it's probably not the right fit.
2007-07-27 02:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Josh G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but it doesnt seem like he's into you. You might want to just be friends with the guy, and not push it too much. Chances are, you'd be happier with a more caring guy. GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-27 02:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probly didnt believe u, or thought it was kinda lame u and a friend told him over the phone
y not tell him in person next time u see him?
be careful, he may not be into u.
2007-07-27 02:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested. Either find someone new, or find out what things this guy is interested in so you'll have something to talk about besides feelings.
2007-07-27 02:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was shocked and didnt know what to say except for 'ok' for fear of hurting your feelings.
him being shocked means he can like u as well or not at all. many possibilities. just talk to him again and clear things up.
2007-07-27 03:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some space. and just say its cool if he says he doesnt like u back. but i think wen guys say that, i think it means they're amused that someone likes them, and who knows, he might possibly lke u back? cross ur fingers!
by the way, can i email u? i have u as a contact, but u dont have any ways for me to contact u. also, how old r ya?
2007-07-29 14:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to popular belief among very young girls, guys don't like forward and aggressive females. Most guys like to do the chasing. Not sure why women don't get this.
2007-07-27 02:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by TJTB 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him out on a date!
2007-07-27 03:22:46 · answer #11 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋