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Do they care if thrir GF has many male friends? My BF is a Taiwanese but he is shy he never says anything so I wonder if he cares?

2007-07-26 23:40:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I am an American girl

2007-07-26 23:56:05 · update #1

4 answers

Yo! Me a guy. I am originally from Taiwan. I'd a GF blond for a while.

I read about 10 of your other questions. I begin to understand your issues are:

A. He is enlisted. This may restrain (make it hard) on your relationship.

B. You are obsessive about him. "He is the only one". "I will not go out with any others." My Ex used to be like that.

C. Your status can be a problem. Do you want to stay in Taiwan? Or will he move out here?

D. I don't think all guys from Taiwan are shy. There are some issues that they may want or afraid to discuss. They may be afraid of losing you.

E. He may be a bit obsessive about you now. There are only guys enlisted.

There are a couple suggestions for you:

1. You must have heart to heart talk with him. Please tell him that you may remain faithful to him. However, you will need to have other (male and female) friends. Even though, you may not want to. You always need friends. It is unhealthy to be "addicted" to a person :)

2. You must discuss your future openly with him. Will he willing to move? Or are you staying there? If neither, you should have open relationship. In other words, you should allow him to date (which is impossible). And you should be able to date as well.

2007-07-27 16:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by naekuo 7 · 0 0

I think you should ask him. I live right beside Taiwan in China so if the guys are the same there as here then he shouldn't mind too much but the girls here tend to be really shy so they don't have to worry about their gfs having lots of male friends.

2007-07-26 23:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by not_moes_cousin 6 · 0 0

a guy will always be a guy! be it anyone and anywhere from this world..... if you are not shy then i donno why he why he is shy!! if anything bothering you then i think you should ask him....

2007-07-27 00:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok first its anybody.....then then if he doesn't care fine its his choice

2007-07-26 23:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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