they want to send me to jail for seeing my boyfriend that they dont like. So they hold you hostage and i have 2 go everywhere they go so i wont used the phoe or the computer???
2007-07-23 04:28:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your parents love and care for you,i know you are not going to like my answer but,they are your parents,love and respect them,they only want what is right for their little girl
2007-07-28 00:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might tell your parents about all the good things about this boy you can think of, and tell this boy he needs to clean up his act around your parents and act like a nice young man, and that he don't need to try to impress them because that would be hard to do.They don't need to know how tuff he thinks he is at school or anywhere else. I am a parent I have Two girls that are 16 and 17, I have been there, believe me. I have talked to my girls about their boyfriends before but so far have never interfered, but I have wanted to a few times. If your parents don't want you to see this guy there is a reason, not to punish you, something is wrong with this guy I would guess. Your parents want better for you and they know this isn't it and fear for your safety, I don't know your age but you are very young and you should listen to your parents. They probably don't want to see you and your boyfriend in jail and they think that is where you will end up if you see this guy.
2007-07-30 14:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by book writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 45 years old. When I was 15 my parents were adamant that I not see a particular boy who was 2 years older than me.
I thought I was smarter than they were and they didn't know anything - especially about the boy.
That "wonderful" boy spent 3 hours brutally raping me and stole what was left of my innocence. It seems that this "wonderful" boy had quite a rap sheet that I knew nothing about. He certainly didn't offer up that information. But my parents knew how bad he was and they had forbidden me from seeing him or having any contact with him.
They took away my phone and insisted I accompany them whenever they were out of town. Why? Because they knew I wouldn't listen to them and they were afraid for my safety.
And it turns out, they were right.
Believe it or not, sometimes parents do know better than kids do. We have been around the block a few times (I have 2 grown children) and have heard it all. As we still tell our kids sometimes, "we raised two teenagers. we know bs when we hear it"
Trust your parents. They love you and want to protect you from the people in this world that want to harm you. You will thank them for their diligence one day.
Good Luck!
2007-07-23 04:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by palmyrafan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't like him ther must be a good reason. Either his reputation, history of bad things, or it may just be an age difference. Too many teens have overuse problems with the phone when it come to boyfriends/girlfriends, and monopolize it for no good reason. They must be concerned over how much interest you are showing in this guy for a good reason and aren't doing it to punish you
2007-07-23 04:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tellyou they love you and must know things you dont'. believe me they are right. i wish i could have taken back stuff i did when i was younger at the time i thought i was right. i married at guy and found out that later i mean 20 years later he has two kids by another woman and the fact is they knew it and he was never married to her and was married before this also its sad but they cnat' tell you everything but its ok they knew and they are trying to help you move on and find someone else. if you have found a good person they would say nothing to you i know this for fact.
2007-07-28 05:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the boyfriend black or ten years older then you?
Sorry for the stereotypical assumption, but some people are @sses....
And yeah, you probably are. Just hang on a few more years, get a good job, and move out fast as you can.
DON'T do something stupid like get pregnant and move out with your boyfriend. It'll just ruin your life.
2007-07-23 04:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, we know what you told us. What has been left out? How old are you? How old is he? Does he have a good reputation? Have you made some very bad choices in the recent past?
This sounds so "over-the-top" that there has to be a very strong reason for Mom and Dad to be so firm!
Sooooo...what is it?
2007-07-23 04:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st of all girl... my rents are wayyyyyy stricter. ok listen....
what time do u hav 2 go 2 bed??? me: 8:30!!! yeaa and i'm 12.
how long r u aloud to talk on the phone for?? me: 10 mins.
what kind of earings are u allowed to wear? me: STUDS!!!
ok there is soooooooooooooo many stupid rules in my house i'm not even aloud to use the computer!!! ( of couse... now i'm sneaking it...)
ok and they don't even think that i should have a boyfriend at my age but a lot of the times ( ok.....i no its REALLY disrespectful) i go behind there back and do it anyway....
i am not allowed to wear make up... ( ANY MAKE UP like nail polish either... but of course i do it anyway.....)
i am not allowed to carry more than $5 in my wallet : (
should i go on???????????
2007-07-23 13:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! its hard to deal with overprotective parents!! they are over protective cause they love you..my parents were over protective...iam over protective of my kids!!justhang in there!! youll grow up and move out,then there will be a different set of problems to face..get a good education..be patient! THIS TO SHALL PASS! good luck!!
2007-07-28 06:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by nancy f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, how old are you??????
AND, how old is your boyfriend???
Have you ever considered that your parents know the world and the people in it a little better than you, and they are only doing what is in your own best interests??
Prehaps your too young and spoilt, or selfish to recognize this??
2007-07-31 03:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't girl my parents aren't but my cousin's dad is over protected I mean we try to go out to the club and junk and he ask her to only drink one drink and she isn't the one driving it's me I don't drink when I have to drive because well I try not to get in trouble with the law but anyways you are not the only one.
2007-07-30 16:53:30 · answer #11 · answered by Barbie Montana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋