Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

She's my friend for like a year and I really like her, she's one of the sweetest, the nicest, and the most beautiful girl I ever known, and I'm trying to figure out how I can impress her and hopefully be her b/f

plz help?

thx

2007-07-23 08:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neighbor was kind enough to help me with carrying some things out of the basement. I made him coffee and one thing led to another after talking for awhile. He really made me enjoy myself which is what really make this hard. I don't know if I should tell my husband that I was with this man or if I should keep this to myself. I can't believe I just did this. I feel like a s-l-u-t! Any advise on what I should do now?

2007-07-23 08:00:38 · 29 answers · asked by Patricia W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 28. I have two boys, 7 and 3 years old. After 11 years I have spilt with thier father and once again find myself alone. i have alot of mixed feelings about finding someone else. One being that I really don't want to get hurt again, then also I have to think about the boys and I don't want them to see lots of men coming and going from thier lives.
I understand I have alot of baggage and also it would have to be a very special man to take me on and to be a good role model for my boys, I not looking for him to be a father but more someone they know and respect and be there for them if needed. It is more so for me to have someone to share my thoughts at the end of the day and to have someone to hold. After my bad relationship, I have raised to bar up but I feel that I deserve to find someone who can be my companion. Or should I just go with the flow and also should I always be upfront that I do have kids or should that be told after a few dates?

2007-07-23 08:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by mk 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf of ~2 years and I broke up last week. He is 25 and I am 24. This is difficult for me, because I am just now discovering that he is not the man I thought he was. He is charming, and handsome, and is in a field that will make incredibly well for himself...and always so romantic. But he had a way of flirting with women, and lying to me on occasion because he knew I wouldn't approve of some of the things he chose to do (going to strip clubs, cooking for his female friends alone, going to get drunk). I am very different from that. I broke up with him last week because I caught him in another lie and I decided I could not take it anymore. But then we decided instead to take time off and try to work it out. I realize now that he has just been stringing me along bc he has moved on and even started meeting up w/ this old girl friend of his just for sexual favors! I feel like this is not the man I knew. I'm a Christian and try to do right. Is there better? How do you move on after 2 years

2007-07-23 07:58:39 · 21 answers · asked by Heather L 1 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married on july 5 of 08, Do you think it would look tacky? I kinda like the idea of the red white and blue colors but Im not sure how it would turn out in that big of a proportion. Anyone been to one with these colors? What did you think?

2007-07-23 07:56:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-23 07:56:15 · 4 answers · asked by Rene 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I normally have a flower attached to my handbag.

2007-07-23 07:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by D 7 in Weddings

Im not asking if size matters! only if u consider 8 inches long to be on the long side, and 6.5 inches around to be on the fat side?

2007-07-23 07:53:55 · 25 answers · asked by alan s 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife recently seperated amicably. We have 2 children together, 5 and 2 and both have full time jobs. I have asked her to let me know what she expects off of me maintenance wise. Neither of us have any idea about this sort of thing.
What is the normal thing? Is it a percentage of my wage? Is it a set amount per child?

Any help will be appreciated to get us out of this rut

2007-07-23 07:52:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

because no one else told me that they would do anything. Well, upon my aunt hearing this, she was very upset about the location and decided that she would pay for it, so I would have a nice bridal shower. My friend, is very offended and called my aunt some not so nice names. I really am upset by this. I feel that it is innapropriate to say something about someones family. And I told her she is just trying to help. Because my mother died, she tries to make sure everything is nice for me. I appreciate both of them. But my maid of honor has not paid for ANYTHING yet. NOT even her dress. And I just bought a new house and paying over 25,000 for my wedding. I do not have the money to cover her. What do I say to my maid of honor? I am really upset and offended by her behavior.

2007-07-23 07:49:42 · 23 answers · asked by donellew2002 2 in Weddings

scholarship, she has a mild LD, with all that said she also has been a victim of incest by her natural father when she was 3 and my brother when she was 15, now she's into boys particularly the thugs in my neighboorhood, I keep trying to tell her they mean her no good and that she's nothng but a piece of a** to them, just a few weeks ago I caught her in my house with one of those thugs, I called the cops but that didnt do any good, he got away, then she has them climbing through her bedroom window for sex, I'm at my wits end, then last week she got kicked out of the summer program at the college, so I've decided to send her to JobCorps, hopefully she can get her life toghether, I'm tired of yelling and preaching, she's driving me crazy, I dont know why she is intent on being slutty...Can anyone help me please, I'm desperate.....

2007-07-23 07:47:39 · 6 answers · asked by cranberry_juice33 2 in Family

my oldest best friend who is male has recently got engaged and his having a party but his soon to be wife hates me and they have not invited me to the party and most of my close mates have kept it quiet in the hope i wouldnt find out and go but word gets around where i live, so i was going to go anyway with afew friends but one of them slipped up when they were drunk and told one of his mates and he said i better warn him that you are all coming and that i better not cause any trouble.I feel like **** now the fact everyone tried to cover it up and the fact he intentionally never invited me should i still gatecrash and stir it up abit?

2007-07-23 07:45:27 · 28 answers · asked by jen 1 in Friends

I recently slept with a guy that I met 1 1/2 years ago.He lives out of state (about an 1hr away) and is always flirtatous with me when we see each other. I feel that we both like each other but I'm not sure how much he is feeling me. He told me that he was interested in me last year but I gave him the impression that i wasn't feeling the same way so he decided to back off a little. By the time I told him I liked him he was already seeing this girl. That was 1 yr ago.We've kept in touch periodically and he invited me to new year's party and his birthday party and bbq's. We recently had sex and right before we were about to do it he told me that I could stop him at any time if I wanted. I spoke to him briefly the day after and told him that I didn't expect to have sex. he apologized. Do you think he's not sure how I feel and is following my lead or do you think that since I don't live close to him he's not sure about my situation and doesn't want to pursue a long distance relationship?

2007-07-23 07:45:10 · 2 answers · asked by sweetpea 1 in Singles & Dating

Why can't they accept a copy of it? They said I'd get it back but I am nervous to send it out......has any one else felt nervous about having that document leave their hands for 2 + weeks?

2007-07-23 07:43:25 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just curious why many of you men wear panties? I recently came out to my wife and told her that I like to wear them. Initially I told her that it was because of the way they felt and they fit better, which obviosuly isn't true. She wasn't real happy with that answer and obviously didn't believe me. Finally I just told her that I liked knowing that I was wearing women's panties, and that it made me feel good and was arousing and I just like doing it. She has been prefectly accepting since that time.

I just want to know the real reason why a straight men like to wear panties. Wives, what have your husbands told you about why they do it. If your husband had just said it was something he did, take it or leave it, would it have been easier to accept?

2007-07-23 07:42:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do women find Nice Guys not only boring but even creepy?

2007-07-23 07:41:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why can't we, as the richest nation cannot have a system where with their driver's license they can be tracked, thrown in jail when they swipe their card for gas, or buying groceries for his new family? I JUST DON'T SEE WHAT IS SO DIFFICULT HERE , PEOPLE!! i t should be a no brainer, but i guess there are too many rich people out there who can line the right pockets to not get those necessary laws passed....IT SHOULD BE ABOUT THE CHILDREN....Not whether or not i hate my, ex..... duh, i divorced him...i sought help through Domestic Abuse, but he wasn't arrested when he stalked us, found out where we lived ....won't be arrested for his "other" problem, i cant speak about , but is illegal in all countries, & morally wrong on so many levels, but again, he'll get away with that as well.....anyway back to child support, we can run fingerprints through the police systems, why can't we add deadbeat parents to the list of scum_ _ _ _.....i just want justice for my son!!!

2007-07-23 07:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by blu_eyedgirl67 1 in Family

If a man was very sweet,loving,kind,affectionate with lots of kisses,hugs and cuddling,respectful and treated you like a queen but had a low sex drive would you still marry him?

2007-07-23 07:39:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

guys and girls truthfully ;)

2007-07-23 07:39:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i knew him 4 years ago in university,igraduated but he didnt.we had a fight one week ago he says that i dont respect him and that he cant continue in this relation.I tried with him but he is insisting,I feel that we must not waste the great love we had i dont know what to do?

2007-07-23 07:38:37 · 22 answers · asked by nadoosh jordan 1 in Singles & Dating

will she be accused of abondonment of home if things come to a divorce ? The thing is she is being cheated on.

2007-07-23 07:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should we keep working at advancement until we reach what we want to be?
Or
Should we stop trying so hard and accept who we are and then re-focus our energy toward our family?
If the later, at what age?

2007-07-23 07:37:01 · 6 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy that I work with, but we work in 2 different depts so we dont see eachother all that often, I want to tell him how much I like him and I was thinking that I would put a note on his forklift just saying to come up to my lab that I have something to tell him or do you think thats too childish, (I am 27)

2007-07-23 07:36:27 · 29 answers · asked by goaway 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 07:36:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to do my own wedding favors. The theme is a beach wedding, with lots of sandcastles and shells.
I don't want to do anything involving sand in a bottle because I did message in a bottle wedding favors.
I was thinking of knitting my own home made wedding coasters, but I think that would take forever.
It is a small wedding, only 30-45 guests.
What do you all suggest??

2007-07-23 07:35:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

just say yes or no and why. thankyou!( i have waist lengnth brown hair)

2007-07-23 07:35:51 · 10 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends little brother whom is rather 23years of age likes walking into the room and then saying knock knock when inside, he has walked into the room three times while am taking a shower and he would never apologise for it. recently i informed my boyfriend of this but in a way of ' honey, please do not get crossed when one day you get home and our bedroom door is locked', he asked why and thats when i explained. now, this doesnt seem to stop the young man trying the door fisrt everytime. am getting frastrated as i feel not respected in the comfort of my own mans house, please help.

2007-07-23 07:35:04 · 8 answers · asked by blackbooty 3 in Family

When you LOOK at girl, what attracts her to you?..now excluding appearance, what attracts you to a girl?

2007-07-23 07:34:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm scared because I might make out with my boyfriend soon.

How do I know how to be a good kisser?

2007-07-23 07:34:03 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i am goin to a party for swim at one of the 16 year old coaches house today..... i am 14 and i like one of the 16 year olds at the party.... 1st of all am i too young for him... second i have nvr been to a boy girl party... we are watching monty python... is that a good movie? Whats it about... also the party starts at 7 and ends at 11. Any tips you can give me? please help... if i am not too young for the guy how do i get him to like me???? ♥

2007-07-23 07:34:00 · 12 answers · asked by #1 swim hottie♥ 1 in Singles & Dating