my boyfriends little brother whom is rather 23years of age likes walking into the room and then saying knock knock when inside, he has walked into the room three times while am taking a shower and he would never apologise for it. recently i informed my boyfriend of this but in a way of ' honey, please do not get crossed when one day you get home and our bedroom door is locked', he asked why and thats when i explained. now, this doesnt seem to stop the young man trying the door fisrt everytime. am getting frastrated as i feel not respected in the comfort of my own mans house, please help.
2007-07-23 07:35:04 · 8 answers · asked by blackbooty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's rude and disrespectful. Clearly this dude's pretty immature and kind of creepy so I think you have every right to lock the door when you don't want to be bothered. I doubt that telling him to knock before he enters will be of any use, but try that as well.
2007-07-23 07:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kit K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to lock the door whenever you don't want to be interrupted... especially when you're in the bathroom taking a shower!!! Have you said anything to his brother? Let him know that you would appreciate it if he could knock and wait until you tell him to come in instead of just coming in. If that doesn't do it, talk to your boyfriend again and tell him it's really bothering you and you need him to talk to his brother about it. If he still continues, just lock the door whenever you don't want to be bothered.
2007-07-23 07:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your bf live at home with his brother and parents? Or is the brother just a roomie? If the brother's live at home with parents maybe it's time for your bf to move on... However, if the brother is a roommate he needs to respect your privacy and intimate time.. .He's old enough to know, that he should knock before entering... He just wants to sneak a peak... Get a lock...
2007-07-23 07:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that his bf's brother should be respectful of your room, especially if you all live together. I'd have kept the door locked from the first incident. Your bf needs to have a talk with his brother regarding privacy.
2007-07-23 07:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out and buy some new doorknobs that have locks on them. This brother is doing it on purpose so he can get a look at you. He is a peeping tom but instead of just peeping he is getting an eyeful.
2007-07-23 07:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like little bro thinks he can disrespect you and his brother. You need to put junior in his proper place, slap down if necessary. But your man needs to tell him leave you alone and stop trying to sneak peeks. He's not a kid, he's an adult behaving this badly.
If your man can't stop it, then you need to consider leaving him if he can't protect you from his male family members.
2007-07-23 09:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your 'Man" gets home, get him and little brother together and tell them both. You are only having a relationship with one of them and one of them is all you care to have seeing your stuff.
2007-07-23 07:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give trhe little bro a show
2007-07-23 07:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋