If a man was very sweet,loving,kind,affectionate with lots of kisses,hugs and cuddling,respectful and treated you like a queen but had a low sex drive would you still marry him?
2007-07-23 07:39:33 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, all those qualities wrapped up in one man are hard to find. You can always work on a low sex drive.
2007-07-23 07:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on YOUR sex drive. If you have a very high sex drive, you will get frustrated over time. If your sex drive is just a little higher than his, you could probably manage, especially with all the other physical attention he gives. Remember, a marriage is supposed to be long term. Things that can be tolerated for a short time can become MAJOR issues as the years pass (and in your case, reach your sexual peak). Don't let his other good qualities sway you into tying yourself to a person you already know can't meet your sexual needs. Rate BOTH your sex drives on a scale of 1 to 10. If your drives are separated by 4 or more numbers, I would say that was too much for you to consider marrying him.
2007-07-23 14:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your call, but think of it this way.
A. Do you want a man who is sweet, loving, affectionate w/ lots of kisses/hugs/cuddles/ respectful...etc who doesn't take sex to be the #1 priority...
OR
B. A man who only thinks of sex, 24/7. Not as affectionate (unless he wants sex) Not as lovey-dovey with kisses/hugs/cuddles (unless he wants sex) etc etc.
(Not to say a man can't be sweet and a great lover.) IMO I just don't think sex should be the biggest contributing factor to a relationship or marriage. I always think of it this way, what if something happened to my husband and he was either a. physically unable to have sex b. mentally unable (brain trauma/medical) c. Under circumstances where he didn't feel like having sex as much. Would I still be with him, OF COURSE! Sex is good and dandy, but its not why I married him and vice versa with me. True connection surpasses the physical/sex aspect in certain times/situations. Good luck!
2007-07-23 14:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Һסρε 2ӨӨ8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your sex drive and what you need. Do you need affection or sex more? Do you want to marry him because he is your best friend and you want to spend the rest of your life with him and you do not think you can find the same things in another man with a stronger sex drive? Sometimes the guys with a big sex drive are not so gentle and sweet and loving. But sometimes you hit the jackpot and get it all in one package. Don't settle unless he is your soulmate.
2007-07-23 14:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by Gma Joan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only marry him if I loved him and could accept that he has a low sex drive. I have a suggestion though...........set up an appointment with a medical doctor and let one advise you on this. It's possible his hormone levels could be the problem and the doctor may be able to fix that? It would never hurt to look into it if it matters to you? You did not state how old this man was or if he was on medication that could be causing this problem. Talk with a medical proffessional and find out. Best wishes and take care.
2007-07-23 15:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definetly would, a low sex drive is treatable. But how often do you find a guy that treats you like you are a queen? They are endangered species, we live in a small town so everybody knows everybody, if i hear the things women complain about i feel extremely lucky because my fiance truly makes and treats me like a queen. My advice is marry the guy and go and see a docter together so that he knows you are supportive of his "condision". I hope everything works out for you
2007-07-23 14:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. A low sex drive can be from a hormone imbalance. That is something that can be fixed. Sex does not sustain a marriage. If you believe you have found the right person for you and you love him, you should marry him.
2007-07-23 15:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by junebug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course i would, a sex drive can be worked on. the other things can be too, but to have a man who already is all those things is awesome! Commit to him before it's too late and some other women catches him.
2007-07-23 14:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by ~Angel Eyed Pookie~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what your sex drive is...if you like it more often then him it could create a problem unless you are happy about everything else in the relationship and can deal with it. myself... i would not do it...personally i have a rather high sex drive. however its good that you know this up front.. although it shouldnt be the bases of the outcome of the relationship.
2007-07-23 14:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by juskilentime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course the money grubbers would marry the guys. Who cares about sex when he has a wallet.
To many women men are only ATMs with legs.
2007-07-23 14:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋