Do women find Nice Guys not only boring but even creepy?
2007-07-23 07:41:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on what you mean by being "nice". I think that many women consider you to be creepy if you are constantly staring at them, or following them around, without ever coming over and talking to them.
Most "nice" guys are shy, and shyness can cause you to do things that most women think is anti-social and suspicious. For example, if you are at a party, and you are spending all of your time talking to just one girl, and you never wander off to talk to anyone else, she may think that excessive attention from someone that she barely knows is annoying or stalkerish. Women seem to like social people who talk to many different people (makes you look normal if you have many friends). And most shy guys do not make consistent eye contact when talking to a girl. Most shy guys look downward when talking to someone because you are too nervous to look her in the eyes; women will usually assume that you are staring at her boobs (and that you are a pervert), or else she will assume that you are dishonest, if you cannot look her in the eyes while talking to her.
2007-07-23 07:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't think nice guys are creepy. They're looking for nice guys. Confident, polite, clean, pleasant, neatly dressed, intelligent, able to carry on a conversation, honest, hard working, all good qualities in a guy. Hard to find, too. Stay nice.
2016-04-01 09:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some "nice guys" don't realize that their "nice" isn't nice at all. If I'm at a grocery store, putting bags in my car and you ask of you can help and I say no, then I mean no. I don't mean for you to ask again and then touch my stuff. I know that most of the time, deep down you have good intentions and don't mean to be intrusive and weird. But if I don't want your niceness, then back the hell off!
So yes, nice guys can be creepy. You always are wondering what their true motive is.
2007-07-23 07:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by LSU_Tiger23 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No, nice guys aren't boring or creepy
2007-07-23 07:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ashlee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think women find nice guys creepy. i think all women need some excitment in a guy.
2007-07-23 07:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the girl. I love nice guys. And nice guys don't finish last. That a big lie that ppl try to make others believe.
2007-07-23 07:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Cryptic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they aren't always boring and nothing about them is creepy unless of course they are too nice then something is up
2007-07-23 07:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's not true, not all women do that, for example,i like nice men and my BF is one of them, he's very sweet and romantic and that's what made me full in love with him at the first time, so be sure that being nice is a good thing,TRUST ME.
2007-07-23 07:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My bf is the nicest guy i've ever dated and i don't find it creepy at all i love it!
2007-07-23 07:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO nice guys r awesome i no a lot of nice guys & they r grate friends & awesome boy friends!!!!!!!
2007-07-23 07:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by Megin P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋