i knew him 4 years ago in university,igraduated but he didnt.we had a fight one week ago he says that i dont respect him and that he cant continue in this relation.I tried with him but he is insisting,I feel that we must not waste the great love we had i dont know what to do?
2007-07-23 07:38:37 · 22 answers · asked by nadoosh jordan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him!
2007-07-23 07:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Pretti iiN Piink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he give you another reason other than the respect thing? I think its kind of suspicious, so either he has another girl on the side, or he just cant take having a girl thats better than him since he didnt graduate. In other circumstances, i would say leave him, but it seems like you still have feelings for him and it would be 4yrs down the drain. Go to him and talk to him. DONT beg him to get back with you because he's gonna feel powerful and like he can do whatever he wants. Just try to figure out why he doesnt want to be with you, and then if it really seems like he's over it, then you should try to move on. But this way you'll get some closure by taking to him. Hope everything works out! good luck!
2007-07-23 07:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you had great love. If you did you would still be together. People that love each other can tolerate each other's short comings, & obviously, he can't stand whatever it is that you do to not respect him.
You should just move on & find your complete match, not just a person to love.
2007-07-31 03:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the reality that he left you and he ended your relationship then move on. It's your life you are living. Don't let him affect you that much his not worth it. It maybe easier said than done but life is like that... taking the first step forward is the hardest.
2007-07-30 14:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by nIjMeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to be with you because you are too obsessive.
Does "Fatal Attraction" ring a bell??
When a man doesn't want you....
You are suppose to walk away with your pride.
I hope you realize NO man is worth begging to.
Men come and go and I am sure....
Your perfect man is probably a few days away.
2007-07-23 07:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Life Is Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could talk to Joey and tell him how lots i like him as a results of fact he's a outstanding pal and could be an outstanding dad. i could talk to Libby, Preston and Jimmy as a results of fact they're my dearest acquaintances and that i could by no skill want to loose them in any respect.
2016-10-22 10:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you need help with what, exactly? This guy's done with you. What part of "get over me" don't you get? What you do is get on with a real and meaningful life of your own that doesn't include this guy who doesn't want to be in your picture any longer. DO THAT NOW!!!
2007-07-23 07:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, there's no love there, believe me. when a guy use the word 'u dont respect me' it has a deeper meaning than when women use it. when we use it, it just means respect us as women, our dignity, but when men use that, please be scared, it just meant he wants control and wants to be respected as a "king' of the relationship, stop pining for him, stop if u know what's good for you. move on and find someone who will love u and find and treat u as an equal.
2007-07-23 07:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must not be all that great for him if he is willing to end it and give up give him space and sometime maybe he will come around it sounds like he is having ego trouble since your out of school and he isnt.
2007-07-30 13:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break for awhile and go on with your life as if you weren't getting back together. If you do, then you do. If you don't, then you've already moved on.
2007-07-23 07:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by sortaclarksville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on it's over ! why do you want a loser like him it seem like he have low self esteem because he doesn't finish collage and he feel that he doesn't good enough for you.
2007-07-30 11:52:57 · answer #11 · answered by Racecardriver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋