Were you scared the first time you made out with someone?

Question

I'm scared because I might make out with my boyfriend soon.

How do I know how to be a good kisser?

Answer 1

no.....wasn't even scared the first time a bang a chick either.

Answer 2

I know everyone's saying this, but don't worry so much. In all honestly, it's not rocket science. Be honest about your inexperience, first of all, and don't expect to be an expert when you're just starting. Making out is nothing more than a progression of basic kissing. Take your cues from him. Take whatever it is that he does that feels good and do it back. Sounds cheesy, but the golden rule works well here. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Do to him what feels good to you. And don't forget to breath. Beginners tend to think that breathing while kissing is somehow disturbing to their partner, but unless you're snorting like a racehorse after the Kentucky Derby (which you will be eventually if you try to hold your breath) it's perfectly normal. The best advice I can give you is live in the moment, do what comes instinctually to you (and if you quit worrying so much, it will), and enjoy yourself.

Answer 3

Just go with the flow of things. When I first made out with someone, a while back, I was a little scared and nervous. I was walking in a park with my boyfriend and I knew that it would happen, but I was scared that it was coming. Just go with the flow of things. This is someone that cares about you. Go slow and don't do anything that you don't feel comfortable about. In time, your fear will wear off.

Answer 4

I would say that i was definitely nervous the first time! I think everybody is though, so dont feel bad! Just dont think about it too much, and just go with the flow. Your boyfriend will probably take the lead and so you'll just have to follow him and go along with it. Dont be too scared because since its ur 1st kiss, it probably wont last that long, and i'm sure you'll both enjoy it! good luck! =]

Answer 5

I wasn't scared that I wasn't going to be a good kisser. I think good kissing is just in you--just be intentional about showing how you feel about him. Also, be gentle. I was scared, though. Because, I just wanted a little kiss, and he just kept shoving his entire tongue down my throat! Eek! Be ready for that, too! No worries. After kissing and kissing, it just gets better.

Answer 6

It kinda just comes naturally. Last night was the first time I kissed my boyfriend of three months (friends for almost two years). Don't worry about it, because if you do, you'll just look nervous. Have fun with it. Play with him, tease him, make the moment more light and fun!

Answer 7

YES!!!! I WAS!! I WAS 15 WHEN I GOT MY FIRST KISS! I got made fun of b.c guys called me straight! But now Im proud i wasnt like 13. I had a paper clip in my mouth and he went to kiss me and I acted like I was playing with a paper clip. I was nervous. Now my bf tells me I am a awesome kisser! I love kissing him!

Answer 8

I was drunk for my first kiss... but I really really liked the guy & was very nervous. And just go with it, don't think about being a good kisser just do it!

Answer 9

i wouldn't use the word scared, nervous works better and everyone is was and will be nervous about the first time. The second question. you dont and you wont, and it really doesnt matter too much. ya can;t mess it up that bad

Answer 10

If you're scared and have to ask complete strangers on the internet how to kiss, then you are way too young to be doing it. When it's right, you will know it's right and you won't be scared.

Answer 11

no i am not scared u just know when u r ready something i feel that way to
normally the guy kiss the girl first